I don't wanna start a relationship or have sex with a woman but when i masturbate and have sexual thoughts 95% of the time its about me being a man and having sex with a woman. Does this mean i'm bi or will this lead into me wanting to form a physical relationship with a woman?
2007-10-13 09:50:02 · 14 answers · asked by ckerr90 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I would use the term bi-curious. It doesn't mean you're bisexual or a lesbian at all necessarily.
2007-10-13 09:53:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
The thing about fantasies is that they are in your mind and don't have much to do with real life, which is why we cherish them. You may, at some point in life, want to see what sex with a woman is like just out of curiosity but not necessarily. You may decide you want to keep this fantasy pure and idealized and in your head only because reality is quite different from fantasy (all those "making love on the beach" fantasies never take into consideration that sand gets into all your nooks and crannies and becomes annoying, impacted sand is real hard and can get cold fast too, and there are biting bugs on the beach, etc.). Time may change what you find erotic and stimulating. Right now you may be subconsciously feeling that you want to be in control or want to play the dominant being during sex or maybe your sexual experience thus far has not been as satisfactory as a woman as it seems it would be if you were the man. I also know a few completely gay men who have told me one of their masturbation fantasies is of women's big boobs. The human mind is amazing! Enjoy your fantasy since it doesn't hurt anyone.
2007-10-13 17:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by Inundated in SF 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe
however in your dream your a man which would still be a heterosexual relationship
maybe your curious about what it's like to be a man
maybe (if you take freudian ideas into account) your attracted to the dominance men still have in society
there are so many possible answers to this it's hard to label one thing or the other
and is there any real need to label anyway?
as long as the fantasy is doing it's job - why not just enjoy it?
2007-10-16 12:27:18 · answer #3 · answered by Evie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id definately Say You're Probably Bi-curious.
Im Bi-sexual and When I was Like 13,I was bi-curious But as I reached like 17..i made up my mind..
2007-10-13 17:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its wrong to put a label on sexuality. You're curious, and it excites you-end of story. I would've been with a man/woman/tranny/whatever as long as they made me happy so am I bi or just open to all possibilities?
2007-10-13 17:02:01 · answer #5 · answered by carlton_barnes 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you want to put a label on yourself. You are what you are do what you feel like doing at the time as long as you don't harm anyone. Just be you and enjoy
2007-10-13 17:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe you just don't know what you want yet and are experiencing ideas of what you want through your creative mind when you masturbate it is a perfectly normal thing and when you have found yourself you will know
2007-10-13 16:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not give it a go? Practical experience, afterall didn't Micheal Portillo (One time Tory minister) give it a go.
2007-10-13 17:00:08 · answer #8 · answered by airguitarman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you might be a transgender (you picture yourself as a guy) however you could be a lesbian since you didn't say if you're even interested in guys or not if you do then you could be bi then again you CAN be just curious...(I might be wrong)
2007-10-13 16:54:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
It's probably just a fantasy
2007-10-14 10:58:10 · answer #10 · answered by StretfordEnder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋