2007-10-13 08:01:26 · 53 answers · asked by swift1958 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
would you stay married to them if they wanted to still stay married to you?
2007-10-13 08:02:14 · update #1
Don't think I could do this. Love is a very special thing, but the mind can only handle so much. I would have to go, but I would support their decision, but express that it would cost more than money, it would cost the marriage and love that I had for that person.
2007-10-13 08:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by Nomeni 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I take it you are not talking about a sex change in order to have a different type of sex.
Actually it is according to what age you are. When you get into your 70s and up, your spouse is mostly a companion and nothing more. You are more tolerant of each other.
A much younger person should seek a divorce and look for happiness elsewhere.
Money would make a difference too. Is there enough for both of you to live on in separate houses?
Take a good hard look at your spouse, and think if that person you know so well would still be a good friend to have no matter if they were a he or a she.
2007-10-13 08:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not stay with a person to whom I was married if they wanted to change their sex!!! If I wanted a woman, I would have gotten married to a woman!!! I want a man who knows who they are and who I am. I feel very sad for the children of such a union, especially after their dad had a sex change and now they have two moms. They want their dad back, and they do not want to be made fun of in school.
If a man has any doubt as to what they want to be when they "grow up", they should not marry. Such a man is way too selfish as a human being. If a man want to be a woman, he can be a woman, but not on my time, and not at the cost of my children and my own self esteem!!!
Good luck and may God bless you.
2007-10-13 08:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by kathleen m 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would stay married to them through the surgery and be there to support them, and love them, but as for them being my spouse the rest of my life, sexually I don't think that would work unless I were bisexual.
If that were true I might try to make a go of it, but if I weren't bisexual I'd have to go and find a spouse that would be better suited for me. Otherwise it wouldn't be fair to me. That would also leave the sex changed spouse the chance to find someone better suited for them as well.
2007-10-13 08:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would divorce them and stay friends. Its not what I signed up for and I would not be sexually attracted to the other partners body, yet I wouldn't wan to restrict their freedom. I would let them make the choice first though. They may decide that the marriage is more important then the sex change for them. In that case in may not be an issue.
Keep in mind though, I am not every person. Everyone has the right to their own opinion.
2007-10-13 08:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If my spouse told me she wanted a 'sex change', I'd support her in every way I could, and of course we'd stay married, if she wanted us to.
It's only fair, after all; she did the same for me.....
2007-10-13 10:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My spouse left me for another woman, a year later moved to Hilo, HI. Two weeks after they moved he told his girlfriend that he wanted to be a woman. 8 years later she is still living with him/her and it has made her life miserable. She was deeply in love with my X. She wanted to spend her life with HIM not IT/HER. So they are friends. He/It has the looks of a woman, acts and dresses like a woman, but still has the male organ. It/She/He is claiming to be Bi-Sexual.
My kids, now 19 and 16 and myself do not have anything to do with their father...we were informed of his transformation when he was 2 1/2 years onto the process, as he was a dead beat dad and was arrested and brought back to Michigan to face charges.
It is traumatic seeing your childhood sweetheart / x husband with breasts.
Leave the person that wants the sex change or live with it and love it....there's no in between.
2007-10-13 08:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by Lizz 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would be shocked. Then have a conversation and tell him if he did I could no longer be with him but I would always wonder why he wanted to end things if he still went thru with it. Then wonder if he ever loved me at all for the time we had been married.
2007-10-13 08:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by iamkaren_123 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a teenager's perspective, but I'd imagine I'd feel hurt. If it was what he/she wanted, I'd try hard to be happy for them, but realistically, I'd probably also ask for a divorce. While it's not that I'm prejudiced against transgenders.. it wouldn't exactly have been the "deal" I wanted to get when I married him/her. I'd imagine it'd be a great emotional blow to me from which I'd have to spend a lot of time recuperating.
2007-10-13 08:08:00 · answer #9 · answered by Emilie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well... what kind of a question is this...
Are you voicing opinions for same sex marriage...
You always marry the opposite sex....
Ofcourse.. if the person wishes to do so... you can continue to be friendz.. afterall..
2007-10-13 08:07:59 · answer #10 · answered by YJ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋