2007-10-13 07:44:26 · 54 answers · asked by jay Lo 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Not me. I am sexually fulfilled.
2007-10-13 08:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by LottaLou 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
NO way. I do not get envious of a man having pleasure out of sex. If for some reason I wasn't getting the "perceived" same amount of pleasure - then it would be my responsiblity to achieve the amount of pleasure I want and deserve - with or without a man. Measuring pleasure is subjective because it is impossible to actually know and compare an individual's sexual pleasure level with my own. How could I possibly know if a man's pleasure is the same or better if I can't truly experience that person's "being"?
2007-10-13 07:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by DG TEXAS 1 · 5⤊ 1⤋
No, I'm not jealous about pleasure, because I feel that I get quite a bit of pleasure out of sex. What I am envious of is that men are more "free" to explore their sexuality than women, they don't get labels for being the sexual beings that we ALL are...only women get labeled negatively when it comes to sex. I think this inhibits women from reaching their sexual potentials, and could be the reason many women have problems with sexual hangups, and can't achieve orgasms. Many women are sexually repressed.
2007-10-13 10:51:08 · answer #3 · answered by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women get pleasure, too...why would we feel envious?
If you're under the impression that women don't get lots of pleasure from sex, then you're probably doing something wrong.
2007-10-13 10:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by wendy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
those women that say "yes" are not letting themselves go or their men are not letting themselves go. I always feel huge amounts of pleasure before - during and afterwards so have never felt envious. I'm curious what it feels like for men - oooooh my next question.
2007-10-14 01:49:17 · answer #5 · answered by hayleyrx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. I get equal if not more pleasure out of sex than my partner does, because he isn't able to have multiple orgasms whereas I quite often do. Sexual pleasure isn't contingent on what genitals you have, rather it is more closely related to how well in touch with your body you are, and how well you know what stimulation you need to be satisfied sexually. That's why men usually seem to get more pleasure than women...they're more likely to masturbate and know what they need to get off. Women are less likely to masturbate so are less likely to know what kind of touching and stimulation they need to become orgasmic.
The other thing is communication...most men seem to have no problem communicating what they want, and often they are in control of the sexual experience while women are often content to sit back and be more of a passive participant. If a woman wants to enjoy sex more, they need to put themselves forward as an active participant, equally in control, and have no fear of communicating when something feels good or not. They also need to get in touch with their bodies sexual needs too, and the best way to do this is by experimenting themselves with what feels good, how and where.
2007-10-13 07:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by KooriGirl 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Your name sounds like a guy's name; and, if you are, it sounds like you don't know how to help a woman get the amount of sexual pleasure she should derive! True, most women can not climax just from sexual intercourse; but a man with even a modicum of skills as a lover can help a women achieve orgasm *every* time he makes love with his wife - I know my wife of nearly 43 years has at least one climax every time we perform what I prefer to call, the "act of marriage"! And I would venture to say she has gotten more pleasure from sex than I have; although I have derived a considerable amount, myself!
This very intimate sexual act is only right in the sight of God in a marital relationship; otherwise it is fornication or adultery and is a sin in the eyes of God!
2007-10-13 08:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by trebor namyl hcaeb 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Physiologically speaking, the sex organs are analogous between male and female. The orgasmic response ( physically, mentally, psychologically etc.) is remarkably similar between the sexes.
The G-spot -- the prostate,
the clitoris -- the glans (penis head)
the glands in the vaginal walls -- the bulbourethral glands
And men CAN have multiple orgasms. Ejaculation and orgasm are two different things. But it takes a lot more training for men to have multiple orgasms since most men masturbate in their childhood and train their bodies to respond a certain way.
2007-10-13 08:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
of the quantity of sex, yes sometimes. of the quality no way! let me understand this better; you assume that men get more pleasure out of sex? on what basis do you have this opinion? a woman has more sensors in her body when men pretty much have the whole thing located in one focal point. your assumption is wrong therefore no need for envy.
2007-10-13 07:58:44 · answer #9 · answered by sarah kay 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No because if you have a good sex partner and you are a good sex partner you can ger the same pleasure or even more than the males
2007-10-13 08:50:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Astride me, in one 45 minute visit, my wife had a total of '14 visits' to that higher plane ~ in succession.
I wish I could manage that.
[ I can make no claims as to responsibility for her pleasures, it was basically ''all her own work,'' but I was pleased to be a party to it ]
Sash.
2007-10-15 05:51:58 · answer #11 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋