I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend and I'm not sure how you even get one like do you have to start socializing with everyone first 'cause I don't do that much and I feel like maybe I'm weird and I've seriously never had one and other girls always talk about how they were flirting or asked out and how they turned the guy down or they'll be like omg he asked me out and i'll be like wow I have no story to tell
2007-10-13 06:51:59 · 23 answers · asked by updo 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
my mom said it's 'cause I seem to have high standards about guys and she said I'm a tough nut to crack or something so guys don't know how to get to know me
2007-10-13 06:53:18 · update #1
am i scary to teen guys or something?
aren't the good ones the nice ones who don't just want some hottie who wears practically nothing?
2007-10-13 06:55:43 · update #2
and she said maybe I should smile more
2007-10-13 06:57:44 · update #3
If you hold high standards, you will find it's definitely worth the wait. If a guy is just looking for someone easy or flirty, they aren't worth having. Remember, the best thing you can offer anyone is you; the real you without compromise. Hold your head up girl. The quality girl is the type guys like to marry someday and will treasure.
2007-10-13 06:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by the_chief 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's narrow it down a bit.
What do you imagine would be better for you if you had a boyfriend?
What do you think is going to go wrong if you continue without?
Well, I would advise you not to date at this age, teenage boys are only interested in one thing. It is best for you to keep your mind on your studies and not pimply faced boys. People in high school are rarely serious about dating anyways... its all a big game. Don't date because you see a bazillion others around you dating. Personally, I think high school should be a time of learning about yourself and trying to get a good education (as best as one can get in today's high schools!) and not worrying about dating or romance, you have your whole life ahead of you to think about that.. I know a relationship is all you're thinking about right now, but try to appreciate other stuff. You don't know this yet, and by the time you'll know it it'll be past, but this can be such an amazing time in your life, and an opportunity to develop in so many ways.
2007-10-13 07:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"getting" a boyfriend is so different from having a boyfriend. You want someone you genuinely like spending time with, and if you have to wait til that person comes along it will be worth the wait. Getting a boyfriend just to have a boyfriend will not make you happy.
2007-10-13 06:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well to start you should probably break out of your shell and do something that you dont normally do like socializing!! that would help..and just be yourself when you meet new people...cuz they want to know the real you....and its ok to not have a boyfriend when your 15 sometimes it might be a good thing...but im not sure....i wish that i hadn't got a boyfriend when i was 14 cuz now my first date wont be special like yours will probably....well not sure if i helped out or not but good luck!!
2007-10-13 06:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. You don't NEED a boyfriend. Many relationships at your age are overly dramatic and can be a big nightmare. Just relax for a few years. The boys will come, I promise.
2007-10-13 06:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by Psylence 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
a million. Bimbos are often truly insecure as a results of fact they only choose intercourse. that's real. i like an sensible lady who's right down to earth. 2. same with social gathering ladies. i will comprehend going to events and having exciting. i will't comprehend getting thoroughly wasted and making out with a ton of human beings. i might bypass to events, yet i might know the bounds. often, social gathering ladies do not. 3. it truly is a private element. adult males like multiple issues. i like thinner ladies, yet once you have a sturdy character, seems don't matter. truly. 4. My greatest puppy peeve is while they attempt to play their little techniques video games truly of being immediately forward, and then getting mad at adult males for not getting it. Us adult males are literal creatures, meaning if females are less complicated, it's going to make each thing so lots extra ideal. it truly is a promise. 5. relies upon on adult males. genuine adult males like females who are not insecure and who've a sturdy character. Others in basic terms look for females who will permit those adult males sleep with them. 6. truthfully, do exactly it truly privately, in guy or woman, and with braveness. If the guy likes you returned, that seals the deal. 7. As calm as we could sound, in the journey that your human beings are conversing undesirable approximately us, just to make us look undesirable, we actually hate that. exceedingly as quickly as we did not something incorrect. Your emotions are significant, yet we don't decide to be put in a project the place your human beings will hate us no matter what. 8. that's not real. some adult males do, yet those are those I warn human beings to stay far flung from. 9. i like a woman who isn't insecure, yet not bitter. i like an sensible person who seems truly sturdy, yet could make even a monotonous time exciting. 10. i don't know, the final lady I met like that have been given stolen from me, so in spite of. i assume i'm nonetheless waiting.
2016-10-22 06:44:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fix yourself up. Apply a little mascara and lip gloss. Go with CLASSY, not TRASHY. You don't want to look cheap. If you want a story to tell, flirt a little. Pick out a cute comfy outfit, apply a little make-up, and flirt! Don't forget to smile! If you dont flirt, no need to rush into relationships. Big hassel. Listen to your mom. No need to rush!
2007-10-13 06:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree with your mom.
AND, did you ever think that those little skanks were just MAKING IT UP about all those guys hitting on them or asking them out?
The right guy will come along. Don't waste your time on the "wrong guys". Seriously. Big waste of time.
2007-10-13 06:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
nice to hear this
you are still young and do not have to rush
so do not lower your standards
find a nice person before you even contemplate courting
but most of all
LISTEN TO YOUR MAM
she knows best
wish i listened more to my mam
have a long lovely happy life
2007-10-13 06:58:36 · answer #9 · answered by itsa o 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let your standards out a little but just have fun and your right guy will come to you. you just have to be patient and happy and live you life till he comes running to your door.
2007-10-13 06:57:53 · answer #10 · answered by Destiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋