I am middle aged and 43. I have nothing at all. No job, no skills, no home, no car - of course no money.
I have no partner, no lover, no friends at all. No social / religious network. No happy memories to look back on.
My body is getting more and more out of shape and makes me sad.
As I sit here today, no one even nos or cares who I am. I keep wondering if it would be rational for me to end things. I feel that I am doomed because there is nothing that can ever be said or done to make things better for me. I wish I had the guts to go to a train station and throw myself in front a locomotive.
Do you agree i am finished now?
2007-10-13 05:40:24 · 17 answers · asked by brutus 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Please go to a hospital and seek help. There are doctors and social workers who can help you.
2007-10-13 05:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by Ace Librarian 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-22 06:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I’d find a way to make money first. Quit your job, move onto the road. Save yourself up some money. This would be a good first step in letting go of all this depression in your current life and moving on to something else. From here you can leap to a better paying job, other opportunities, travel, whatever. You need $$$ though and you probably will have to work like a dog to get it. Money though is as vital to your life as the blood that flows through your veins so having it, and cutting ties with all the crap in your old life, must be your first step.
Do what you can to not let your body fall apart. Your body and mind are one and they rely on each other. If you let your body fall apart it will affect your mind. Start eating better. Educate yourself on what your body actually needs for food. Go for some walks, go for some runs, and for the love of God get out of that life you are living because it’s killing you.
2007-10-13 08:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by the_honorable_spm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now that you have nothing else to loose you can expect everything you ever wanted to come your way. All that you have right now is your SELF and that’s more that enough along with your faith. Now you can surrender and allow your TRUE SELF to guide you. Throw away your fears, embrace what life has offered you so far – even if it’s nothing – there is a reason you are in this situation. There is a lesson you need to learn and then teach people about it.
To kill you self will only result in a come back more dreadful than the one you’re in right now.
2007-10-13 06:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by MARY B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what happened to get you in the situation you are now, but I don't believe that anyone is ever doomed. You said you have no home, I don't know if you mean that literally, if so, there must be a shelter you can go to, if not nearby then in another town. If you don't mean that literally, then by all means, it's time to try to get some of the things you don't have. It can be done.
2007-10-13 05:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by KJC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You already know the source of your problem though you do not reveal it here.
You seek a solution that is only temporary. Like a band aid that hides the wound.
Change your inward state and your outward state will follow.
STOP the thing that is the source of your grief. You already know what it is. You already know what the first step is. Take it. Move to the environment that will offer help.
The money you seek will not help.
In the deepest part of your heart you know. You may fool others ..... you may hide the truth for a while, but this my friend, is your moment of truth.
Seize it! (or continue to wallow)
Good luck and God speed!
Blessings and peace to all,
All in all,
B
2007-10-13 06:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by An Nony Mous 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. You are not doomed because you have your life. Consider this-Life is what YOU make out of it. It is your choice not to have a partner, a job, etc. You complain and sit idly by while life goes on around you.
Get off your butt and make you life the way you want to. Wallowing in self pity is a bore.
2007-10-13 05:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by Lovely unicorn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I firmly believe that it's never too late to do anything. Keep your chin up, do some soul-searching, pray to God, and stop caring what the world thinks. Don't worry 'bout the standards society has set about what makes a person successful.. Just find what makes you happy.
Best of luck!
2007-10-13 05:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by Pinay Backpacker 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you truly felt this way, you would have done something about it. You still have hope because your reaching out. You are looking for people to give you a pity party. It is your choice about attaining a job, car, money, sex mate, friends, and easiest of all, a church, for some mysterious reason, you have chosen not to. Life is about choice and decision, either you choose to have the things you have listed, or you decide not to.
2007-10-13 05:51:18 · answer #9 · answered by Music is my Balance 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No,All kinds of things can make you feel better for free,help a stranger,take a walk,pray,get off your butt and do so sit ups,watch a sunset ,attend a church service,help a neighbor.The more active you are the less whiny you become and remember if you are busy your can't be depressed.
2007-10-13 05:46:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. Your just being pathetic. =p
Considering all the things that you mentioned, your just thinking "all about you." Your just being selfish. See the word "selfish"? It's compose of the word SELF + "ish". Try thinking the other way around, like thinking about the people who loves you. Im sure you still got your parents, your brothers and sisters, your relatives... etc. etc. Try thinking about them. People only tend to think like that if ALL THEY DO IS THINK ABOUT THEMSELVES and not the people around them who care and love them. For sure no one is a nobody in this world unless you were born without knowing or having a parent. But even so, I'm sure theres still a lot of people who care about you...who loves you.
Peter Parker was once said that "choices makes us who we are." If you choose to be like that, then nothing, and I mean NOTHING good will happen to you. But if you do something about it, then I guess it wont be that bad. From my experience, you wouldn't be what you are if you don't let things like that happen to you. Maybe your letting those bad things control your life. Why dont you control your life, or much better let God control it. Suicide?! Thats not a good idea. See??? Its still a choice. Its still up to us if we want to end our life. A choice!
Dont let your problems control you, instead control it or as what I have said let GOD control your life. Problems may come and in reality we cant avoid it. No one in this world is free of problems. Your problem is quite simple compared to those who suffer more. Just consider yourself fortunate. Why? Because your still alive.....
No skills?! MY GOD! You even wrote this question quite fashionable, thats a skill.
Your still young, and dont tell me that life is short coz I'm gonna kick your butt. =p (kidding)
2007-10-13 06:29:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋