I wouldn't allow my husband to do such a thing. No way, that's the biggest insult ever! You, as his wife, should be all he needs to be satisfied.
What's his problem? Maybe you should have thought about the two of you getting married a little longer. I would have dumped the bloke if that was me.
Get out of the relationship before it gets too serious; like having babies. Or if not - get some counseling. I've also found that by reading Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus by David Gray helps a lot too.
Hope this helps. If not - there are plenty of more fish in the sea. You deserve better.
2007-10-13 04:44:52
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answered by Raquel 4
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Well, I would not be crazy about my husband going alone as I would begin to wonder if he feels if I am not enough for him. My husband has been to the strip clubs quite a few times..but guess what..I always went with him. If its about fantasy with him, I want that fantasy to include me. We went a few times together and he really has no desire to go anymore. I think he realizes after looking at some of the women and their real lives behind the stage such as the drugs, prostitution, etc., he has a better woman at home and that the great body is not everything. Besides, I try to keep things exciting for him and he doesn't have to look elsewhere.
2007-10-13 04:45:09
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answered by Anonymous
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I've never had a problem with it. Strip clubs, at least in theory, are a look but don't touch atmosphere. There is nothing impure or degrading or delusional about a man who wants to look at and admire the feminine form. My sister, friends and I occasionally go to the Chip&Dale shows. So from experiance I can say that looking at another person's physical appearance doesn't make me look at my partner as being "less".
All of that having been said, even if I thought that going to a strip club was the most foul thing one partner could do to another, I still would never tell my partner that it was something they could not do. I will not allow another person to police my actions, and it would be hypocritical of me to do the same thing to someone else.
2007-10-13 05:16:24
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answered by lkydragn 4
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I'd feel fine. I hope our marriage certificate didn't kill his senses. If he enjoys going to strip clubs once every two months with his friends to check out naked women and have fun---how does that threaten anything we have? I don't assume him to be idiotic enough to want to risk everything at home because he paid to see a naked woman for a few hours. And him looking at another woman's body, won't take anything from mine. I would even go with him, I'm sure I could learn a few tricks.
2007-10-13 09:57:40
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answered by Lioness 6
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individually, i don't comprehend each and all the hype approximately being became on sitting suitable next to all your human beings. Sounds extraordinary. anyhow, i might evaluate that a private attack on my self esteem. i might sense very harm and betrayed. (How might he like it if some guy have been climing on your lap?) you do not want me to validate your emotions when you consider which you know you're suitable. you may not exchange the style you sense. He made a option to throw the intimacy out of your dating out the window, and it is going to take it slow and a few very trusting palms to repair it returned to well-known. First, you may talk with him. locate out if there are problems with your adult males' intercourse life the place he feels he "desires" to bypass with a view to sense fulfilled. if so, do what you may to restoration it. it may desire to be a transformation in a ordinary intercourse life. OR, if he's basically being egocentric...... tell him it hurts you, and makes you sense like 2nd string. That that's complicated to have confidence him and sense appreciate for him while he treats you this way. Ask him how he might sense in the journey that your daughters grew to grow to be strippers. and then ask him what he'd do in the journey that your daughters' boyfriends have been out at strip golf equipment, and that they got here working to daddy to restoration issues. Which area might he decide for?? Then, ask him how he'd sense in case you desperate to grow to be a stripper to usher in some extra advantageous money. a real guy does not take income of a technicality. that's not actually cheating, in spite of the shown fact that it comes damn on the brink of it. I, in spite of the shown fact that, evaluate it cheating. **he's looking for different lady to fulfill his sexual desires.** undeniable and straightforward. some human beings decide to declare which you'll be able to in basic terms be insecure and that it does not trouble some females as a results of fact they're shelter with who they're. nicely, what do your instincts inform you??
2016-10-22 06:26:54
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answered by giardina 4
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Men who do this when they are happily married are pigs, louses, and maggots.
The strippers hate their jobs mainly because of the ugly losers that show up.
Acceptable men aren't interested in strippers and strip clubs.
I am not kid, I'm an adult so you don't have to worry about getting laughed at by a bunch of kids.
Make no mistake about kids, they are intelligent and capable of giving out intelligent answers.
2007-10-13 07:54:59
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answered by Anonymous
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Being tempted in this world is hard enough. I want my husband to be as pure to me as possible (and he strives for the same) because he loves and respects me... and watching naked women at a strip club does not honor me as a wife...so no. That is a no go in our marriage. I fulfil my husband, a false image of lust does not.
2007-10-13 04:39:25
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answered by humanbeforeamerican 3
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Im not in one now but it is always good to work up an appetite .
Sometimes were caring sensitive understanding genetlemen however sometimes we like hanging out with the boys reveling just once in a while in our piggish nature if only for a few hours .
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2007-10-13 12:49:05
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answered by Anonymous
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My husband has gone to a strip club many times, mostly for bachelor parties. I don't particularly care for it, but I feel if I say anything to the contrary it would be an unnecessary fight.
So I just give him a little bit of hell and let him be. I don't mention it after wards, and it's all good.
2007-10-13 10:22:27
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answered by Done 6
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I don't agree with it.Why does a married man need to be in a strip joint,if he is satisfied at home?
2007-10-14 13:37:19
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answered by Candi Apples 7
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