please tell me why a married man,or a man in a relationship would want to go to a stripclub?
also,what are your thoughts about them?
women - what do you think about your husband/partner going to one?
please be serious. thank you.
2007-10-13 03:17:46 · 13 answers · asked by ♥livingdeadgirl♥ 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
There is so much to say on this subject if you are a woman. I can start by saying that i don't think it is appropriate. Only for the reason that it can make a girlfriend or wife feel unattractive in their mates eyes. Men think it is harmless they find all women's body interesting.
Another thing I am thinking is a married man goes to a strip club for the same reason an unmarried man goes. You cannot expect anyone male or female who gets married to turn off part of their brain.
2007-10-14 03:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I must start by first saying that I have no problem with my "homeboys" going if that's what they want to do with their time and money. I, personally despise going to them. The women there are being degraded, not only by the men who attend, but by themsleves. Many of the women who "dance" for a living are for more intelligent than they appear and do NOT need to do it, they chose to do it. I also must say that I have never seen any point in going to a club and wasting money on women you can NOT touch, can NOT take home, and can NOT do much more than LOOK AT! I have a beautiful woman sitting at home and if I wanna be teased, I can watch her take HER clothes off, get a little tipsy, spend the money on DINNER (rather than a lap dance) and you know what? At the end of the night, we are both satisfied and safe in our own bed.
2007-10-13 10:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by Spark of Insanity 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Ronnie. If the guy went to strip clubs before he was married, he is going to go after he is married. I did ask my husband this question, at first I did not get a straight answer.
He and most men will not give you a easy answer to this. I finally had to settle for: Men go to strip clubs because they can be around women who don't nag them, question them, or make them feel inadequate regarding their lives. They get pampered, smiles, and lots of attention that make them feel special and also make them feel like they are the master.
2007-10-15 11:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by Marla ™ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't feel that it is right for a male or female in a relationship to go to a strip club. I think it is wrong for anyone in a relationship to look at another person in lust. Lucky for me my boyfriend feels the same way. He is not even into the idea of going to a strip club. I know everybody has a different take on this subject, but at least both my boyfriend and myself are on the same page with this. That is what really matters.
2007-10-13 10:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by Missy 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Just to hang out with friends, guy's night out.
No, I'm not in a relationship or married but I know others who are and thats what they have said.
2007-10-13 10:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Bull 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men go to strip clubs to see women dancing naked for the purpose of sexual arousal. I don't think it says anything about how he feels for his significant other.
My thoughts on strip clubs: I'm indifferent. I've only been to one once, and my wife was with me.
2007-10-13 10:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm married and go all the time
i don't have a problem with them
have you ever been
a lot of men go with there girlfriends and wives
2007-10-13 10:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
men are visual, women dont think that way
men are not women
men see sex and love differently from women
you see it as a betrayal of your marriage
he sees it as interesting
stop trying to make your man think like a woman
he isn't calm down and relax
he can loOK but not touch
if he understands that every thing is ok
2007-10-13 10:22:25 · answer #8 · answered by bdsmslavegirly 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I don't mind as long as I can go too. As long as it is for fun why be mad.
2007-10-13 10:21:13 · answer #9 · answered by Misused 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That's pretty disgusting. I would break up with my boyfriend if I caught him. That's sick.
2007-10-13 10:20:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋