finger eleven paralyzer lyrics?

Question

what do they mean?

Answer 1

The guy is absolutely shaken by the look she can give, and it makes him think he should make a move to have quick physical action (I am imagining a dark place OR your place OR my place).

The man is so stirred he is nervous and not himself. He wishes the club would not even be there so she would not come and thus stir him to these feelings he will not act upon.

Lyrics:
i hold on so nervously to me and my drink
i wish it was cool in me
but so far has not been good
it's been shitty
and I feel awkward as I should
this club has got to be most pretensiously
since I thought you and me
well I am imaging a dark lit place
or your place or my place

Well I'm not paralyzed
but I seem to be struck by you
I wanna make you move
cause you're standing still
if your body matches what your eyes can do
you'd probably move right through me
on my way to you

i hold out for one more drink
before I think I'm looking too desparately
but far has not been fun
I should just stay home
if one thing really means one
this club will hopefully be closed in three weeks
that would be cool with me
well I'm still imagining a dark lit place
or your place or my place

I'm not paralyzed
but I seem to be struck by you
I wanna make you move
because you're standing still
if your body matches what your eyes can do
you'd probably move right through me
on my way to you