...and you were able to chooce what you look like, would you change genders or stop the same?
I'm a straight guy but I prefer to be thought of as one of the girls so I'd probably decide to live as a girl for the rest of my life, that way I can be myself all the time without being so self conscious and I can wear whatever I want rather then being stuck wearing trousers all the time, I don't even really like trousers, I prefer skirts and dresses but I'm just too self conscious to wear those types of clothing in this body. I just prefer girls things rather boys things. I'd like to do cheerleading or sommat but I'm really self conscious when it comes to that.
So I'd rather be a girl dispite it having many downsides.
What gender would you live the rest of your life as if you had the choice though?
2007-10-12 22:08:53 · 21 answers · asked by Lily R 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
so u'r like a lesbian trapped inside a man's body. Cuz u like to dress like girls, and u like girls.
well i used to wish i were a boy, so i can wear baggy clothes & sneakers. Because i was raised that way: girls should only wear tight clothes with heels. Mum never gave me any option out.
At the moment i'm living without Mum, nor Dad, so i can wear whatever i want. If have to choose now, i'd choose to be a girl, because, with my height, haha, i dont think i'm any "man". And i dont want to be man anyway, they're all a sshole and insensitive. I'm happy where i am.
Maybe u should do the same. Maybe u shouldn't change ur sexuality, u just need to change the people u are surrounded by.
2007-10-12 23:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by sunny 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd stay the same. I'm heterosexual, but I have strong male traits. I once completed a 'psychological' test and it turned out I was male, even my index fingers are considerably shorter than my ring fingers. I can park a car better than my son, but he's better at parking a 40 tonne truck. I can read a map and rarely ask for directions. When I get a new computer, printer, mobile phone, dishwasher, washing machine, I don't read the instruction manuals, I just dive in and play around till I figure it out.
As a man, in a charcoal-grey suit, with or without the pink tie, I would not have been so successful.
BUT, I play on my feminine side. I'm the little lady, (with emphasis on the lady) who dresses in a very conservative 'bourgeois' manner and then astounds people by expressing very 'left-wing' (socialist) ideas. I surprise people and I get their attention. I have been known to indulge in a little harmless flirting, to convince susceptible men of my point of view. People listen to me, because they have already made up their minds that I am 'obviously' right of centre. That's their problem. These statements relate to my professional life, and not my private life. In private I'm a pussycat - although I can turn into a tigress!
2007-10-12 22:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by cymry3jones 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not. Gender selection by using political coverage has been finished in China and ended in a extreme scarcity of ladies: "In 1990, there have been 12.seventy 3 million more desirable boys than women contained in the age type of 0-14, at the same time as 10 years later, the be certain went as a lot as be 18.07 million." (a million) it truly is projected that by using 2020 there'll be 30 MILLION more desirable adult adult males then women human beings in China (2). the first link has some sturdy assistance for why being short 30 million women human beings will be a foul component.
2016-10-09 03:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by menachekanian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am doing, cost a lot though, my mum kicked me out so i have had to do all this on my own. But i look fine, talk fine, act fine, and on the way for the op, 82 days to go. The op will cost short of £9000, and thats in the UK, then after the recovery, i want to go on with a career in business and become some posh slag millionaire and take over the world! Hahahaha, i have watched Pinky and the Brain so i know how to do it, narf!
Oh, about the skirts, apparently i have the perfect slim figure for one, and cos im 5ft 9, i can pull it off well, but i dont like them. I prefer jeans and jackets, long coats and sunglasses and a lovely pair of revolvers with a long sword. Laugh and grow fat!
2007-10-12 22:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would change and live as a girl
2014-05-17 15:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd stay as a girl, i believe that we get more choices (clothes, ect) and have alot less pressure to 'take the lead' in relationships.
Also, look on T.V adverts. Nowadays, men being displayed as sexy is fine, but often women being portrayed in the same way would cause outrage. I have to be honest - that makes me feel secure.
Plus, girls don't tend to be laughed at if they are 'tomboy' whereas men may be teased if they are 'feminine'.
Simply, i believe that whilst there are ups and downs to each gender, woman is one i am more fitted to. And its noce to have such an interesting question :]
2007-10-12 22:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am content to be a man although I would enjoy being more glamorous as a man. In truth though, I'm too long in the tooth to be adorable like yourself and too poverty stricken to buy the latest fashions. The vision of you as a cheerleader is making me smile: I hope you can do this one day...it would be really something, wouldn't it! Am I supposed to finish this with an "x" or a formal handshake then? I do not know! Give us your hand and we'll kiss your hand 'cause you're so delightful. Sorry for teasing! Bye!
2007-10-13 01:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Alright, I hate having hair as a man, I hate the receeding hair line. I don't like to have to change the oil, work on the house and do all the dirty work. I like things clean and proper.
In some ways I've always wished I was a girl. HOWEVER, I hate waiting in lines to go to the bathroom, and the period thing...HECK NO. That is just wrong, wrong, wrong to me.
I'm alright with being a guy as long as no blood comes out and I can get to a bathroom when I need to pee.
Silly isn't it.
2007-10-12 22:26:30 · answer #8 · answered by Tommy Thompson 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you just trying to get something off your chest?
A snip here and hormonal treatments there can make a man very much a women in appearance. I think it's less convincing for a women to become a man.
Maybe you should look into it - as long as you look half convincing when dressed up... I've seen some post op that look like men in make-up so they might have saved themselves the effort :)
I am a straight female who prefers male friends, but i wouldn't want to become a man.
2007-10-12 22:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Would I change my gender?
No, I wouldn't. I was born transsexual; it took a lot of time, pain and effort for my gender to be finally realised, and I wouldn't like to waste all that.
It sounds to me as though you are having trouble with your gender identity; you may be transgender, or possibly transsexual. If you want to explore these possibilities, you might want to look at these links; one of them is an online test (the infamous COGIATI test) which should not be considered an accurate definition, but may help you to realise where you want to go.
2007-10-13 01:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋