Ok about two weeks ago my boyfriend got into a car accident and it was a serious accident too. Everyone says it was his fault which it wasnt. The 18 wheler hit him and to find out he driver of it as drunk. My boyfriend has been in the hospial since then and he is still not breathing well he has to have multiple surgeries before he can even go home. He broke 3 of his ribs he has a whole in his stomach and he messed up his leg and his lungs arent working right. For me i am scared and I really dont know what to do im use to being able to be with him but now i cant. What should I do.?
2007-10-12 20:37:23 · 5 answers · asked by Lover Duckii Angel 1 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Injuries
First of all, you are still there so you must really love him. You are in a very difficult situation, maybe harder than what your boyfriend is dealing with. I had a bad accident when I only knew my girlfiend for five months and I was worried she would leave me. It really meant alot for her to be there for me and our relationship is VERY strong now, mostly because of what we've been thru. He needs to see you strong and smiling, not upset and crying. I know it's tough but recovery is ALL ABOUT ATTITUDE. A good attitude will make recovery easier for both of you. Just remember that this is a life changing event and if you are with him at the hospital as much as possible he will be happier and more able to heal. If you can make it you will have a bond that is incredible. I wish you and your bf the best. I hope he can make a full recovery. Good luck and stay strong!!
2007-10-13 01:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by ERIC E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Don't worry he's in the best place for help. The Doctors will do all that they can. It takes a while to get back on your feet after something like that, it could be months before he's back to normal but I'm sure he'll be OK. I've seen and been to loads of accidents like that as I'm a Paramedic. Just think he's lucky to be alive. You'll be able to visit him as much as you like once they've sorted him out don't worry.
2007-10-12 21:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor thing, his sure lucky to be here, more then ever he will need your understanding, and caring. You must feel so lost without, him, but you will be fine, go to him when you can, and chat to him about things you too like doing together, maybe bring in a book and read to him.Just wait, until the time is ready for you to go to him, you don't want to see him worse then you really have too.good luck for you both!!!
2007-10-12 22:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the new Testament and Psalms (will help you and calm you down), pray for him and be there for him and be cheerful. He must have one heck of guardian angel to make it after that, be thankful ans sue the stuffings out of the drunk. Take care.
P.S. Jesus healed many so read that and don't worry as Jesus said if the birds and flowers are taken care of so will we.
2007-10-12 20:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by R J 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there's a frightening hadith of Prophet(pbuh) i do no longer understand the genuine words however the hadith is that if a Muslim see an oppression and comes to a decision to no longer do something approximately it, does not condemn the acts of the oppressor via his coronary heart or via his speech have the backside point of Emaan.
2016-12-29 07:19:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋