I know the guys girlfriend that my wife was cheating with, I have info that she doesnt know I have, should the GF know that her boyfriend has been unfaitful to her.....
2007-10-12 20:15:29 · 24 answers · asked by LB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Divorce is already final, have solid proof, no revenge on the guy or wife, just information to share with his GF..A women should know who she is dealing with, before she marries the POS!!!
2007-10-12 22:19:34 · update #1
Hell yeah!
2007-10-12 20:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl might as well know what she is getting into.
Get ready for some fireworks.
Since she can get 1/2 of all assets acquired during the marriage, and this might turn into a nasty divorce, you really need to consider making preparations for divorce.
Have all your mail hit a PO Box.
Have your paycheck hit a new account at a new bank and transfer all checking, savings, IRA (etc.) accounts away from where she can get to them.
Start getting rid of stuff... even if it is just selling it to a friend for $1 and having him store it for you.
Hit the state website and start downloading the PDF divorce forms you will need to fill out and file at the courthouse.
2007-10-12 20:30:10 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It depends on what you want to get out of telling the girl friend.
I'm assuming you are upset about your wife cheating on you, it seems that your focus is on the girl friend knowing instead of what lies ahead in your marriage. Why do you think your wife cheated on you? I'm not justifying her actions, cheating is wrong but there's obviously a disconnection with your marriage. I don't know all the factors here, lets be fair and give me some details on why..... She obviosly has her reasons.... You may not be all that saint like...
2007-10-12 22:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by Sara O 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, if you have solid proof that it happened then definitely. But do not do it to hurt the guy, and even though you may have evidence do not harass this lady. She may believe and she may not. Let her know and get your divorce. Sorry about this, I have been there.
2007-10-12 20:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by nettech45662 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no doubt u have to tell her, she should know where her mans mouth has been if she is kissing him. when this blows over a little and things start to settle down i would try to bed the women u told this too, just a little shot for the ex's to appriciate. u sound like a decent man. good luck to u and i will keep u in my prayers.
2007-10-13 04:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES tell the girlfriend if that was me i would love for some one to tell me and let me know my no good for nothing boyfriend is cheating on me but yea tell her and let her know what he did and what he has done
2007-10-13 03:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by BLOSSOM 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a bit confusing to me..
u caught who wife? ur wife? or another mans wife? whatever?
go tell her u no. and leave it up to her to go tell him in the next 30 days.. or leave him..
if she doesn't in 30 days then yes, u should go tell them..
we are concerned with std's and much more..
2007-10-12 20:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your damn right. In fact, invite them over to dinner and reveal it all during dessert!
2007-10-12 20:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by MHnurseC 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes tell! It will be fun to see what happens!
2007-10-13 03:10:22 · answer #9 · answered by sandra b 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES!!! imagine that you were in her position. she has every right to know, because the same thing that happened to you, happened to her.
2007-10-12 20:25:28 · answer #10 · answered by Schecter18 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
who cares. are you looking to do some pay back or what. that is what it sounds like.
why tell. you should be concerned about yourself. that bi tch did you wrong. what are you going to do about it. deal with that.
2007-10-12 20:19:14 · answer #11 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋