Do you believe most women are attention freaks?

Question

I do believe so.

Hey, now wait a sec.....before you go, "He's an a$shole!" or "He's drunk!" let me explain myself...will you? ; )

Alright. For one thing, think about how some females act around one or a few people at a time. Observe how they socialize around just one person, especially if that person is someone they don't know very well. Most (not all) females will not say much of anything in situations like that. That is because the majority of women are what you call "antisocial." Not that it's a bad thing, but im just making a point. Also, the way a gril dresses can be the opposite of their persona.

Now, observe how a women (or that particular women who im hypothetically speaking about, which could be anyone you know) acts around a crowd of people....does anyone see a drastic change in the "oooh, look at me," department?

This is more common in young women than girls over 25. That is because women reach their sexual peak in their late 20s/ early 30s, and they become grounded.

Am i right on this? Please people, don't be rude, im just stating an opinion.

Aaron

Alright, for it seems that a certain someone (KUBUM, that is), does not give a a reason on why i am wrong about what i say, but goes on about how immature i am. we are trying to have an adult convo, yet you don't even list facts on how you are right? you criticize my opinion and insult my intelligence, yet you give none your own.

Answer 1

No I am the total opposite. As long as the people around me are happy...I am..Hey Hun as long as you are happy let the little things roll off your back.....

Goldie

Answer 2

I think you are wrong on some points, do you know very many women personally?? I totally disagree that most women are "antisocial." It is women who are often portrayed as chatterboxes, not men. I do think that many women are self conscious, maybe do to the pressures that men like yourself put on us with constant observation of our personalities, lol. I don't act "hey look at me!" around crowds at all, I am much more open when socializing with small groups of people I know well. That is common of both men AND women. I find that most men brag CONSTANTLY and about things women don't care about or give little insight into who he is as a man. I also think some men can't tell the difference between a confident, opinionated female and one who is seeking attention.... The way a female dresses can either dictate her personality or cannot, everyone is different. If I wear something sexy, yes, I am more confident, but I'm far from an "attention freak" as you call it. That is the same as a man in a nice suit, etc. it will make him feel good about himself, there's nothing wrong with that. I think you are right that women over 25 are less self conscious and concerned w/ how others see us, but on a whole give us a break man! LOL.

Answer 3

Oh, I don't think that I would say attention freaks. Most of the women I know are addicted to DRAMA!! Oh my god, the DRAMA! @ ties it gets to the point where I won't even pick up the phone, cause I know just how it's gonna start. Oh girl you will never believe what happend!!! It's a drama addicton. Now, I do know some women that act differently around others than they do me. But, the way I see it is that some think that they have to act differently towards others to be excepted. (like being too nice, or more judgemental) It can even come down to the clothes they wear. Women can wear many faces. Alot is exspected from a women in scociety. From a Mother to wife, teacher, doctor, maid, taxi driver, witch...and so on. We play so many roles. And most without the well deserved respect, or apprieciation. So I can see how some of my friends act differently around others, than I.I can see how they are simply looking for validaton, exceptance, (the what about me??)maybe to fill some void in there lives. But see, I don't look @ it so much as a negative thing. I see it as they are real around me, because they are comfortable around me. They don't have to play the games. Well, I hope that you get the answer you are looking for. I kinda feel like a got off on a ramble...Good luck to you!:)

Answer 4

I disagree. First, year after year after year, I've gotten the same message that females are more social than males by nature. They're verbal at an earlier age and develop better communication skills. Females touch more and value relationships (any kind) more. I've always learned that males tend to value objects more. The dynamic in a one-on-one conversation is different from that of a crowd. I think alcohol tends to play a part in the dynamics of a social crowd and makes everyone less inhibited. Also, women reach their sexual peaks in their 40's. Maturity naturally happens to everyone. After many mistakes and failed relationships, everyone becomes more grounded eventually. Maybe women aren't reacting the way you want towards you because they sense that you have wrong assumptions about them.

Answer 5

You make an excellent point. Back in the day, when I used to go out in the bars with the girls from the office, I noticed how with one particular friend, we'd just sit and drink and talk. Her blouse was buttoned up, she was social but not being obnoxious. Then, as the bar became more crowded and more men came in, suddenly she became very flirty, her blouse somehow became unbuttoned and out came the cleavage. I just sat back, drinking my Coronas and eating my hot wings watching how this "drastic change" had unfolded in a matter of hours. Unfortunately, this coworker of mine was nicknamed the "drink whore" in the bar, for pretty apparent reasons.
I do have to agree, though, that there are those women who purposely seek the attention in an effort to feel good about themselves. I think the older you get, the more you start to realize that that youthful sex appeal you once had is fading fast, so you try to make up for it in other ways (i.e. going to the club half naked, trying to exude sexuality).
I don't think your question is rude at all. Actually, I laughed as I was reading it because it's like you are reading my mind!

Answer 6

From your letter, it's clear that you have yet to learn that it is not a good idea to write about subjects of which you have no knowledge.

You should show this to your parents and see what they think. I think I'd seek help immediately if a child of mine was coming to these conclusions. I am really worried what type of person you will be when you GROW UP.

Perhaps it's just past your bedtime, or you missed your nap today.

By the way, you aren't old enough to even consider a grown woman's "sexual peak," much less pretend to know when that is.

Seriously, go have a long talk with your parents. You need it.

Answer 7

I agree with you 100% and there is nothing lacking in your intelligence you stated your opinion tactfully which is something some of the others can't say for themselves.Your perceptive which is also good to see in a man.(not many men will take the time to watch and even care what the women are doing around him)

Answer 8

Okay...your rambled on for a minute ..but Yes some women do like to be the center of attention. I have one friend who is always trying to act like she is one of the guys and when she talks she moves her eyes just to make sure someone is paying attention to her. Then this other broad I know is a fake beehive...she acts like everything she does is better and bigger than any one else. I think it is just a mental ailement!

Answer 9

Too ... many... words.....


But to answer the first line, yes I agree that women are attention freaks. I am one myself.

Oooh I read the last line there.. about 20's and early 30's being the 'sexual peak'.. and it grounding them... uh, no. That's when it's more about "look at me"...

Answer 10

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