why would a married woman make her self look like trash when she has children. a good husband . and expect to be looked upon like a decent woman . when she cheats on her husband and degrades her children and family. life as if nothing has happened at all can she justfy. her actions to her family over this act of cheating as if nothing happened our neighbor did this and told my wife and she got caught . justfy. it as if nothing happened to them ...
2007-10-12 18:22:04 · 12 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she is married and has children and had been married for.23. years and in her late.40. cheating on her husband .and trying to justfy her actions as what she did..
2007-10-12 18:25:10 · update #1
justfy. her actions. no . she cant with her family as what she has done . no more than a man can , my honest opion?
2007-10-12 19:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As someone who has gone thru this i can testify that this behavior is not normal or healthy too her. There is a reason for her lack of responsibility which probably seems just an excuse too us but it usually has something to do with her mental health.
She needs guidance and support from friends and family.
Simply, She may have been abused early in life before the marriage and no one knows. Don't discard the possibility
at all may explain all of her misguided behavior o.k.......
I have gone through this personally and my marriage for the most part is over because of her illness but i still love her and yet i haven't seen her in 5yrs.....
their is no easy answer out there for all concerned, feel your way and just be honest and a friend too all parties concerned
including her..... And as 4 me I am still waiting for the woman
i married too show back up in my life as i still love my wife after being apart for 5yrs and her acts of betrayal, I still love her as much today as the day i said i do..... Hopefully she gets
back on her medicine and comes home ..... good luck too you and your friends ..... thundercloud66
2007-10-12 20:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by thundercloud66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the **** has your neighbours adultery got to do with you? and why does this effect you?
Men are just as guilty of turning themselves into trash with cheating , when will you people stop asking on the side of 1 sex and ask on both sides or better still dont ask because there is only 1 answer trash attracts trash plain and simple.
Dont put me in a box caotogirzed as trash I dont cheat never have and never damn well will.
2007-10-12 18:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not her problem, that's her husbands problem and the very only person that can do something about. She can live her life in absolutely every way she wants and nobody can tell her absolutely anything. Again, it's her husband's problem and the only one that he can do something about. If he married wrong - fix it. If he has been years, that's his choice and "oh, she is such a bad person" is just a perfect excuse for him to just stay in the marriage, never manup, and found the "comfort zone", doesn't dare to do what it needs to be done, and just worries about other's peoples problem and not exactly what's his problem, hence, they aren't fixed while things are that way. Open your eyes, or keep dreaming things will get any better. The only life you can change, it's yours. Decided to be in that situation with that kind of woman?, not my problem. That kind of thing....
2007-10-12 18:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by livingthe30s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's all a matter of self-preservation. What's she going to say..."Yes, I am a horrible person for cheating on my husband and I deserve to degrade my family because they are awful!" No...she'll never say that to anyone's face.
The reason she can justify it is because she probably doesn't think there's anything wrong with what she's doing. For all we know, the husband has been doing the same thing to her for years, and so for her to do it back to him makes sense to her. It could be a numbe of reasons why she's making excuses.
2007-10-12 18:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you spend more time learning to spell and use proper grammar. That way you won't have any time to spend minding other people's business.
2007-10-12 18:37:51 · answer #6 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer is simple:
She is selfish and immoral...period.
If a person has no conscience to bother them, they can justify anything.
2007-10-12 19:20:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CHEATING IS WRONG. BUT ONLY SHE KNOWS WHY SHE DID WHAT SHE DID AND NOBODY SHOULD JUDGE HER. SHE WILL HAVE HER DAY WHEN SHE GETS CAUGHT. LIKE THEY SAY WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND . AND NO MATTER WHAT A WOMAN DOES THAT DOESN'T MAKE HER TRASH. HOW ABOUT WHEN MEN CHEAT ARE THEY TRASH.
2007-10-12 18:45:29 · answer #8 · answered by marimar67m 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i no a lady exactly like this,
except shes now divorced & sleeping with every guy she can whilst her kids are in the same house.
you cant justify it - there losers.
i suppose they only think of themself no one else.
or they just dont care.
probaly both.
2007-10-12 18:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Isn't it really your neighbors business? And why do you keep posting the same kinds of questions over and over and over again...
2007-10-12 18:31:39 · answer #10 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋