2007-10-12 17:45:39 · 33 answers · asked by ******** 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Absolutley!! I have been married 17 years and me and my hubby watch it together or not.
2007-10-12 17:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by angela1040 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
It is not normal for anyone to watch porn, especially a person that you mentioned.
The internet has too much porn now. The more people watch it, the more the porn industry will want to produce more of it.
The link between porn and crime has been established. Also, porn is generally degrading towards women, and also to men too, but usually moreso towards women.
It can be very addictive, and it is not something healthy. One time I heard a learned man saying something to the effect that: "a person knows when he is doing something wrong because he doesn't want other people to see him doing it, and he wishes that others would not find out."
It's a dangerous habit to pick up. There are many other positive alternatives for one to pursue, such as YA or sports or playing board games even.
Some of you will think I'm a prude and that I'm being too close-minded about this issue. But think about it for a while - isn't this stuff indecent? How would you like for one of your loved ones to be in one of these websites? This stuff is inherently indecent and morally unacceptable. That might be something a lot of you disagree with, but you should reexamine your reasons about it and look at the evidence presented.
2007-10-12 17:55:02 · answer #2 · answered by Adel 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I don't want to start a different topic. However, I used to look at porn every so often and my wife freaked out. She soon started giving me literature on how bad it is. Anyway, long story short, we're about to have our marriage dissolved and she's blaming porn. I've slowly been weening myself from looking at it, but I would weaken occasionally. I'd say it's ok in my opinion, but make sure you partner is alright with it or else.
2007-10-12 18:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by MB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, totally normal. I suggested we watch porn tonight. We got crazy all over the family room for about 2 hours(while kind of watching a porn movie) and now he's passed out in bed. I keep poking him to see if he's still alive. I'm worried that I've boinked him to death.......nah...he's fine lol
2007-10-12 17:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yep, even if the significant other is in the next room it's totally normal for him to do this. Sometimes people just need sexual release without the emotion or having to worry about getting someone else off. Or am I speaking for myself here? ;-)
2007-10-12 18:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say absolutely. Why not? but we live in a society of double standards. It's okay for women to have "personal massagers" in their nightstand drawer, but apparently it's all wrong for men to whack it while watching porn. Go figure.
Side note: I walked in on my wife in the middle of the day one time while she was about to climax while using two toys on herself at the same time. We had some pretty amazing sex after she realized I had been watching her for 15 minutes! On the other hand, she caught me jerking it in the shower one time, then made fun of me for weeks while insisting that this must be why I always take such long showers. TOTAL double standard.
2007-10-12 17:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Yes its normal and healthy and if your wife doesnt feel comfortable with you doing it then just try to reassure her insecure ego try to involve her or dont slack off in the sex department that way she isnt on here asking 1 million times WHY WHY WHY....
Sheesh lmao.
2007-10-12 18:22:41 · answer #7 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm always in the minority when someone asks this questions, but my answer remains the same.
Yes, it is wrong. There is no need to lust after other women when you have a wife...period. Lusting after a woman is the same as commiting adultery in the eyes of God.
2007-10-12 19:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its only bad if your significant other doesn't like it the you watch porn and you do it behind her back the reason being that some women feel like their husbands are cheating on them when they do that, and they probably feel jelous about it and it can be harmful in a relationship. but if you've talked to her about it and she is ok with it then it shouldn't be a problem you guys can enjoy them together
2007-10-12 17:51:39 · answer #9 · answered by hey 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sure is, for a variety of reasons. Short version: we are visually stimulated animals and more visually focused because we are natural predators (thats why our eyes point to the front). Males that were more easily sexually aroused outbred other males. So you can see how you have been naturally selected to be easily aroused sexually by visual images.
2007-10-12 17:55:49 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Paul 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yesssssssssss. It is normal. I watch it with my husband and I dont mind. Just ask yourself this: do I want him watching porn or cheating on me with some other broad?
2007-10-12 17:50:02 · answer #11 · answered by leg1 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋