would you tell them ......
or would you worry about being caught in the middle of their problem .......
perhaps even made to feel like somewhat of the blame is now on you for telling ..... you should have just stayed out of it ......
2007-10-12 17:29:46 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i would tell her... she would want to know, ive been cheated on to many times! once she told me, so i would do the same for her ^_^
2007-10-12 17:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not tell.
Your instinct about being "made to feel like somewhat of the blame is now on you for telling ..... you should have just stayed out of it ......" is right on the money.
2007-10-13 00:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jay 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alot of my friends have been cheated on and I have seen or known about it., But I have never said anything, because I did not want to be the blame or the cause of a break up or just loose the friendship if she believed him over me....they always found out they were dating jerks anyway.
2007-10-13 00:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by scorpio_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely would tell them ~ but gently. With explanations that I really don't want to be in the middle, or lose their friendship and that my concern is only for their welfare. Etc., etc.
I wouldn't want to be cheated on, but I would be upset if a friend knew about it and didn't care enough to tell me.
That's just the way I am.
2007-10-13 00:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by Giddyup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell the person cheating that I knew and give them a chance to come clean with your best friend and if they didn't within a reasonable amount of time, I'd tell my best friend then.
2007-10-13 00:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by wld_jkr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to find a way to point her in the right direction so she could catch on and find out on her own..
It might seem wrong but, like you said BEING CAUGHT IN THE MIDDLE WOULD NOT BE GOOD...
:)
2007-10-13 00:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by Stacie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. They might be angry with you for a while, but realize eventually that you were being a good friend. This happened to me with my college roommate in the 70's. We're still friends.
2007-10-13 00:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would def tell my bf. If she didn't believe me, I wouldn't say anything else about it though. Think about it. How would you feel if your bf didn't tell you that your boyfriend was cheating on you? You would be angry, huh? Imagine how she will feel then. She needs to know. She probably will appreciate you telling her more than you know.
2007-10-13 00:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have and I will tell my best friends again when and if they are being cheated on....No one should allow themselves to continue a relationship with someone who doesn't value them enough to keep their fun parts to themselves, and their significant others!
2007-10-13 00:37:07 · answer #9 · answered by Honey J. Valentine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell the friend. if they are a true friend they will kow that you care about them. if the friend isnt that good then dont do anything because like you said you get stuck in the middle of it.
2007-10-13 00:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by scooter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how close (GOOD) friends we are but I would set something up, so that my friend can see with their own eyes.That way nobody is to blame but the one that get caught.
2007-10-13 00:44:22 · answer #11 · answered by mamachula01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋