do you think this is normal we were traveling and at the hotel pool and we got out for a few minutes and I ended up sitting by my wife and across from her sister. I have pretty small feet for a guy and I think both me and my sister in law noticed that her feet were larger than mine when my wife went to the restroom I was shocked to have my sister in law boldly say look how small your feet are up to mine and she pressed her soles right against mine...honestly she was loving it picking on me and kept talking about it.... and I guess I found it pretty cool too. she left her feet by mine for a long time and even showed my wife the difference in size when she returned. this made me feel kinda funny but i found it kinda turned me on. do you think that I did anything wrong or is this kinda normal would you do it if you were sitting across from me and noticed the same thing
2007-10-12 17:11:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
by the way its pretty common knowledge that I'm a foot fetish guy
2007-10-12 17:12:32 · update #1
have any of you ladies with feet on the larger side done anything like this again she was the one who did the agressing and talking about it and just seemed to love being bigger
2007-10-12 17:21:06 · update #2
Ha ha ha, then your Wife should already
know what happen when she left.
Nothing.
Besides It's OK, because you are
Family.
So get anything else out of your mind.
We aren't related,
so of course we would be playing
" footsie ". :-)
2007-10-12 17:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Women Comparing Feet
2016-12-16 04:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by killeen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO I don't think it's normal! You got turned on by your sister in law, what would your wife think or feel if she knew this? My husband and I almost got a divorce over something similar to this, and his answer was I didn't think what it would do to you, or the family... So stop and think how much you getting turned on and liking this could ruin... I've been here it ruins family functions, and your marriage. You might not think of this being anything, but turn the tables around and ask yourself what if she had done this and got turned on by your brother.
2007-10-12 18:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by Brecken's Mommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah well you got a foot fetish so no der its gunna turn you on , but the sister was definetly hitting you show some respect for your wife and dont touch your sister in law's body parts in any way shape or form how rude.
2007-10-12 17:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything is normal up to the 'you were kinda turned on' part. Not that it's bad (you are a man). But you better stop those thoughts right in there tracks. Nothing good can come of that thought process.
2007-10-12 17:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by GoodGuy53 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Uh, you're on very dangerous ground buddy.The wifes sister is totally off limits, it may seem like harmless flirting right now, but many a divorce story started out much the same way!!
2007-10-12 17:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by bikerwolfpack 1 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Not having a foot fetish, I don't understand how someone could read so much into that incident. But, if your wife is aware of your foot fetish, she may have shared this bit of info with her sister and she was goofing on you.
2007-10-12 17:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by drewxjacobs 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it sounds like your s-i-l knew that you would find that flirtatious. My s-i-l flirts with my hubby all the time. She's in a situation where the only man she gets to have sex with is her husband (and my brother) and she's sick of him!! JK! I think it's just a new family dynamic she needs to "adjust to".
PS you are adusting to a new world too! Sometimes footsie is just a kick in the foot!
2007-10-12 17:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by mommymj 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok well first , dont make it a turn on or not, dont make it a sexual thing plz , it will hurt ur wife and her sister and ur marriage, so just be the nice guy and its ok to compare feet , women are kinda so sensitive so for her , comparing feet is normal , she just childish in her mind so dont make it another thing.
eat ur wife's feet , i did to my fiancee and i loved it such ( never ever did to any and wont do it to any ever)
2007-10-12 17:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by michael 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One day I saw my girlfriend compare foot sizes with another one of her friends before they bought each other shoes for christmas. they were comparing with their feet going sole to sole. it was the first time i got turned on seeing feet go sole to sole. Iv never considered my self as a foot person, but to see my girlfriend go sole to sole with another girl was quite nice. kinky is what i mean. other girls feet don t turn me on but its only just seeing her foot go sole to sole interested me a lot.
2016-08-21 07:23:28 · answer #10 · answered by Happy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime a reasonably attractive woman is nice to you, or god forbid touches you, you feel an attraction. It doesn't matter who this woman is, so long as she isn't your Mother. Nothing wrong with feeling it. Just keep it to yourself. Enjoy the feeling, but if you're married, don't waste your time expressing it.
2007-10-12 17:40:10 · answer #11 · answered by danisaacs 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋