i had a baby a week and 3 days ago. i had a c section.
i'm haveing a hard time cause he was born early and is in the nicu.
my hubby only will touch me when he wants a bj or a hand job. he never wants to hold me when i'm crying. am i wrong to be upset about it.
2007-10-12 13:30:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
I would be upset too! You should talk to him and tell him how you feel, some men can't take hints....they need to be told straight out.If he is still acting the same after talking it out then I would refuse any sexual acts until he can be more considerate!
2007-10-12 14:40:24 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ϑεηηιƒετ♥ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Seriously? You're even able to give a BJ just over a wk after having a C-section. Rest up a bit. If he's not holding you when you're crying, then yeah there is a problem.
2007-10-12 22:35:44 · answer #2 · answered by MaPetiteHippopotame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I'd say your hubby is being extremely selfish. He shouldn't even be worry about sex right now. It's hard enough healing from birth, both physically and hormonally. I couldn't imagine doing so w/out your child right there to love on. You need and deserve loving support from him.
2007-10-12 14:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 03:00:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not wrong to be upset, but you need to express your feelings to hubby.
2007-10-13 16:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by Becca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! your husband is being very inconsiderate. I think he is being a downright ******.
2007-10-16 12:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry if this upsets you or anything but i think he is being a fat selfish je*k!!! and you have every right to be mad!!!
2007-10-16 11:54:36 · answer #7 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋