honestly ive never known my sexuality. i just started questioning now . well just thinking back to when i was a kid i have gotten kisses from my friends and it felt right getting kissed . but then as i got older i like checked out girls bodies a bit ( i thought it was totally normal) but that kinda went away. but then there came the day when i was a on site and my bi friend asked me out , i didnt like her like that but i said yes. but when she broke up with me i kinda hurt a bit. anyway. i never really loved guys and the fact that this guy is kinda into to me rite now doesnt make me all happy or anything.help please
2007-10-12 12:53:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
dont label urself .just do what u feel is right..
2007-10-12 13:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by jessie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well most people arent actually positive. When you were being kissed by your friends the right feeling could be the feeling of "Acceptance" and contrasting to when you's broke up the feeling of "Rejection". Perhaps you just need to meet the right guy ^^.
You could say you were scared of being homosexual due to it being seen as freakish in a way by the general public and we can see earliar, you rather liked being liked by people.
I would suggest you watch the film Kinsey with "Liam Neeson" (My favourate actor woot).
Also it doesnt matter what sexuality you are there are alot more homosexuals than you think. (I'm not homosexual by the way lol ^^).
2007-10-12 20:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by Duncan S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it never hurts to try new things. i personally don't believe in being gay but it is your choice. Maybe you don't like that guy and not all guys. to be sure try to go out with some one other than that guy (he still needs to be a guy) if you still don't feel anything. maybe you are gay. so see if going out with another girl gives you feelings. if you got them your gay if not try again with both sexes. and if you felt them with both your bi. just don't come out until you know for sure because some people are still homophobic and you might get additional stress to your identifying sexual preference problem
2007-10-12 20:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are there any guys out there that you find attractive? we aren't all bad. but go for it try both. a man can do what a woman can do. you just have to rub there nose in it like a puppy dog. I'm not trying to sound nasty these are just expressions. as if what you are looking for in a woman, you might find in a man just have to tell him how you feel.
2007-10-12 20:01:22 · answer #4 · answered by sean s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you are under twenty- so I would say don't confuse yourself with labels so much- these are real people you have feelings for, either emotionally or sexually. Let it happen and be true to what makes you happy.
2007-10-12 19:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by mtlanglo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just keep in mind that there is always a little bit of a gray area sexuality isn't a black and white kinda thing
2007-10-12 20:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by Lindsey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Id go with being bi. Keeps both sides open.
2007-10-12 19:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by HakuMomochi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's just that you don't feel that way about the guy that likes you. Or maybe you are bisexual. Look deep within yourself. I think you may already know the answer.
2007-10-12 20:36:42 · answer #8 · answered by hippiegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could possibly be gay, have you dated guys, how did you feel about it if you did, but really if you have dated a girl already you are at least bi.
2007-10-12 19:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to fall in love first and see if that gets you going. No need to experiment with sex if it doesn't mean anything to begin with.
2007-10-12 19:57:42 · answer #10 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that you need to actually experiance with both man and woman. or at least try to. it could be that you just haven't found the right person. good luck.
2007-10-12 20:01:10 · answer #11 · answered by me, me, and me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋