i really like this guy and I was supposed to do something this weekend with him and I really want to go!!.. but I got grounded. is there anything I can do or say to my parents to change there minds??!! <<>
2007-10-12 10:59:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I don't know how old you are but if my daughter had songs called "SEXY F**K" and "12 INCH" and wanted to go out with a boy this weekend, I would be reluctant to allow her. Your parents are probably concerned about you and your sexual activity. I know that listening to those songs does not make you sexually active BUT it looks that way to parents. I would suggest that you sit down with them and explain that you like that music and that it has nothing to do with your sexuality. Admit that you used bad judgment and that in the future you will refrain from buying those types of songs. Tell them they can trust you and that you would like to go out this weekend but if not, you respect their decision. You might lose this battle but you will be better off down the road.
2007-10-12 12:05:04 · answer #1 · answered by Doc Biz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Share this information with your parents and apologise for breaking their rules.
Make a commitment to not do so again. Ask if you can have a different punishment instead.
If that fails then explain to your boyfriend that it is not you who is calling it off. I know it can be embarrassing to admit you're grounded, but if he is worth anything he will not tease you about it, and will at least not think that you are messing him around. I hope it goes well.
2007-10-12 11:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by DavinaOpines 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do for now except take your punishment. But in the future monitor yourself.Learn from this . You have to be responsible for your choices.Don't choose music that is too sexy for a young person to listen to. If you make wise choices your partents will trust you.
2007-10-12 12:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by rjm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No wonder why your grounded & you can't go out with this guy - look at the music you bought - sexy f & 12" - they're probably worried you have sexual intentions with this guy.
2007-10-12 11:09:02 · answer #4 · answered by tanner 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
You deserved to be grounded. You didn't use good judgment. I would not trust you with guys if you are listening to that kind of trash.
2007-10-12 11:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn your lesson - just download those tunes for FREE using Limewire (where there is NO purchase history) next time ;););)
2007-10-12 11:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope you should not be listening to music like that anyways. Tough luck they are your parents for a reason and its their rules. Obay them.
Mother of 2
2007-10-12 11:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by dawnroberts 1 · 7⤊ 0⤋
You should listen to them but grounding you for the type of music you like is stupid
2007-10-12 11:10:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
oh too bad so sad
you got caught, you are grounded
tell him your grounded and reschedule
the world will not fall apart if you have to reset your date
2007-10-12 11:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by Desiree M 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There's nothing you could say to me that would allow you to go!
2007-10-12 12:08:38 · answer #10 · answered by ElioraImmanuel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋