im 19, 100% gay and love my gf.
people find me weird because i dont want to sleep about or go to clubs and i dont believe in sleeping with lots of different people because there is no point to it.
why is it that so many people my age just want to sleep about, get drunk and be stupid? do you think people are loosing their moral values?
is there anyone that feels the same way?
2007-10-12 07:44:49 · 18 answers · asked by jane d 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Its not weird its different, I'm the same way. At first I thought I might be asexual because the clubbing, sleeping around drinking thing didn't turn me on. but then I realized there has to be some sort of connection between me and the person though getting drunk can confuse some of your senses and make it more likely that you will make out with a total stranger.
Love, lust, whatever there has to be something there for me.
But on the other hand alcohol can lower your defenses(some of which are there for a good reason) and combined with the sensations of a make out session can lead you to sleep around. I hear it feels good but that just doesn't appeal to me and seems to risky. Maybe I ll get into it when I can legally drink (Im 20) but its highly unlikely.
Yeah Im weird
2007-10-12 10:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by mcturtlegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're definitely not weird. I think that you're a very responsible person who knows what to prioritize first. At that stage, a lot of people want to experiment on things - probably because it's more fun doing what they want to do in that kind of age (a while-we're-still-young kind of thing). Some of them think that they're running out of time and might as well do just about everything. Some of them think that they wouldn't have a chance to sleep around, get drunken mad, etc. in the future, say when they are expected to deliver especially when they have settled down. There are a thousand reasons and everybody has got one.
Morality is a word that gets beaten around nowadays...
I admire you for being what you are right now. Be proud of yourself! I was 19 three years ago and I never once thought of sleeping around, then, I also had a girlfriend. Anyway, take care okay? ;)
2007-10-12 15:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by J. McCoy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are the people who keep saying this guys by any chance, if so, it's just what guys do and think and pretty honestly they are quite nuts over sex from the age of 11-26 and in some cases older, that's why all my friends are girls because I got fed up of the sex talk and also all my friends I happen to have fancied because they're all beautiful girls and ones my ex who's also my bestfriend, but answer to your question you're not wierd it's just that guys start having meaningless sex with aload of girls then the girls do the same thing, if anything you respect other peoples feelings and should carry on that way, rather then having an angry mob of people you slept with chasing you when you're 30.
2007-10-13 06:13:41 · answer #3 · answered by Lily R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you are wise and in touch with yourself better than most. Its hard to get past the instant gratification thing that the 60's promoted. (e,g, I'm sure Clinton really liked his staff person, and every other woman he touched through the years. He cared deeply for them and was not just interested in a passing touchy-feely play with me now kind of thing.)
2007-10-12 14:51:13 · answer #4 · answered by Victor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Weird?
Nah.
Just sensible and down-to-earth.
Though these days I suppose sensible and down to earth *IS* weird. Especially in people as young as your own little ol' self :oP
Just stick to your guns, though. You're doing a grand job.
2007-10-12 15:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find some new friends because your current ones are likely to contract some fatal STDs by the sounds of it!
2007-10-12 18:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by Kirsty G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not weird. you are just a good, sane, person with good values and morals. BE PROUD of that! there are not many people like you! :)
2007-10-13 00:03:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your weird hun there is a lot of us about.. not every one wants to sleep about but if that's what they want to do that is there choice just like this is your choice ......
and for all the derogatory answers isn't it past your bedtime ...
2007-10-12 15:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by casha1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're weird. I'm as straight as a pole and wouldn't mind being your friend. Is that too creepy?
2007-10-12 14:48:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To just answer the question no you are not weird. We all different so we all have our own normality and you are normal.
2007-10-12 18:28:45 · answer #10 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋