I know that it sounds bad ...but he hardly ever sees his kids due to his ex and he has 2. Well it takes nearly all his pay check which leaves me with having to pay most of the bills which is starting to stress me out.? So is there anyway he can get out of paying child support ..legally that is haha?
2007-10-12 07:16:16 · 18 answers · asked by buterfly1580 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
No. Additionally I have no respect for any parent that does not want to support their children. I do have some ideas that may help:
If he is not getting to see them for court ordered visitation he should file contempt of court charges against her and enforce the visitation.
If his support obligation "takes nearly all his pay check" then his ordered support payments may not be consistent with the support guidelines if all that is being withheld from his check is for CURRENT support (not back support). If this is the case he can petition the court to adjust the support amount to be more in-line with his income.
2007-10-12 07:21:36 · answer #1 · answered by davidmi711 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Short of you producing a death certificate, he will be on the hook until the other parent requests in writing to the child support authority that she's willing to take $0.00 a month, and then that goes in front of a judge who will ask how the child is going to eat without any child support. The states dont want the child ending up on welfare so they tend to lean toward keeping the support going.
The visitation has little to do with support. someone else wrote about 50/50 custody but that will be tough to get if he hasn't spent much time with the children, and worse if they are already in school. paying less support is a poor reason to take custody - the child will know, and you do such a child a disservice by pretending otherwise
2007-10-12 11:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by Shell Answer Man 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a million. Is there a courtroom order? If she is violating a custody/visitation association ordered by using the courtroom then no, which could not criminal (no matter if he will pay toddler help or not). 2. If there is not a courtroom order, he has purely as a lot top to his children as she does and could see them on each and every occasion he chooses. If he is going to visit his children and he or she will be able to not enable him, he could contact the police and get a replica of the record that she would not enable it (this may are available accessible at the same time as it does bypass to courtroom). 3. bypass for your interior sight courthouse and inquire with the clerk of courtroom about a thanks to record as a self-represented celebration. you are able to also educate your self about the approach at your interior sight library. Many attorneys furnish loose consultations which could atleast furnish you with some concepts about what you should do, and there are some who paintings professional-bono (loose) or on a sliding scale. He could look at this. 4. you do not have any top to be inquisitive about those youngster's lives in any respect until eventually you're married to him. in reality, you're a component adverse to him if/at the same time as it is going to courtroom and also you at the prompt are not married.
2016-10-09 02:33:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense...but this isn't a cool question!
He created those kids...now he has a moral and financial obligation to them.
Simply put...if you don't want to pay child support then don't have kids.
As for YOU having to pick up the slack...
You have every right NOT to pay child support. They are not your kids. You should NOT have to cover his child support, nor his other bills. He is an adult, who made adult decisions...so now he has ADULT RESPONSIBILITIES!
2007-10-12 07:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by starrzfan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOOHOO........ so what the kids can just live on the street eating out of trashcans?..... Tough crap if you are stressed, he made the babies he is responsible for supporting them..... Ive worked 2 jobs for 5 yrs to make up for the support I pay,,,,,hasnt hurt me a bit.
2007-10-12 07:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes there is a way,, its called 50/50 physical custody, he needs to file a motion in family court to set aside the previous order for custody, then file for more time with the kids, he will have longer visitation, then once it gets to 50/50 even split the money part will go down, the longer he has the kids the less he has to pay,, why doesnt he have them half the time now??? if he is a bad parent then he needs to better himself , why does his ex have full custody,, thats the question you need to resolve,, and now
2007-10-12 07:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by MR MOM USMC RETIRED 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
GOD what is wrong with you people
doesn't he want to see his kids if he does and she wont let him take her to court and if he doesn't want to see his kids what kind of man is he
and no matter what he should pay if people don't want to pay support keep the willie in the pants
and if you don't like it find another guy don't support him
2007-10-12 13:23:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, when they turn 18 years old. If he would like to be more involved in their life he should go back to court and ask the judge for more visitation rights. Even if he had joint custody, he would still owe child support.
2007-10-12 07:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by smartypants909 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He'd have to take it to court, but child support is court-ruled, so I doubt that he'll get out of it. Those kids are running around with half his genetic material. He's responsible for half their upkeep.
2007-10-12 07:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf made a choice to have children he has to support them. It's the right thing to do and the law!!!!!!If she is stopping him from seeing them he should probably take legal action, that is not right.This seems to be a super immature question.....Why would you not want him to support his kids? Shame on you!!!
2007-10-12 07:22:58 · answer #10 · answered by dee dee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋