okay so one of my girl friend likes me.shes bisexual and she has this major crush on me.i mean i dont have a problem wiht my friends being gay or bi or whatever.but i dont know what to do.i mean im kinda uncomfortable areound her now.and idk i think i like her but i have a boyfriend....help!!!!!!!!!????
2007-10-12 05:48:08 · 8 answers · asked by LaShar.Baybee 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just tell her you're flattered, but that you're not interested.
Problem solved.
2007-10-12 05:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by DEATH 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The first thing to do is to make sure that this is true. Sometimes assuming things can cause more problems than finding out the truth. If it is true, let her know that you do have a boyfriend and that you're flattered by her attraction. Also let her know that you two can still remain friends (reiterate the friends part). Let her know that you're not interested in that kind of a relationship (one of being girlfriends with benefits). She should get the message.
2007-10-12 12:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by Pnthr wmn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ooops! Difficult one eh? She shouldn't have told you really unless you were giving out signals that you liked her in a different way? Its ok to have a crush on you but thats as far as it goes! You are straight, or you claim to be! and now you have to tell her the truth! Tell her you feel slightly uncomfortable around her knowing how she feels about you now but that you don't really want to lose her friendship but you think the pair of you should stop hanging around together for a little while until this situation calms down a bit. Once she realises that you are with a boy and happy then she can move on and find someone who likes her for her! Can i give you a bit of advice? You know, deep down, that she has strong feelings for you and you've known for a while really but it was a bit of an ego trip for you, to be admired and fancied by another woman? My advice to you would be this - don't play with peoples emotions, these things have a habit of turning nasty!!! I hope you can salvage your friendship in time.
2007-10-12 15:09:24 · answer #3 · answered by misstraceyrick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what i did when that same sitiation came up on me.
Tell her im sorry but, i am am not bi. Dont take this the wrong way sweetie, ur nice but i cant go with you.
I have a boyfreind
2007-10-12 12:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by Dore 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd talk to her about it. Let her know you respect the fact that she's bisexual, but you're not. Tell her you love her, but only as a friend, nothing more and be sure to let her know that the fact that she DOES like you, wont interfere with your friendship, as long as she doesn't act upon her feelings.
2007-10-12 12:52:19 · answer #5 · answered by Perfectly flawed. 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Firstly... A person's sexuality is no one's business but their own. If you feel attracted to her and you think its worth risking the friendship, then go for it. Otherwise, stay FAR away from dating a bisexual friend if you think you're straight...
2007-10-12 14:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want your creators wrath on you.....better run like hells after you because it is.....God has already said he will punish all evil doers...those who reject his son Jesus he send to give salvation to...there will be no homosexuals in heaven...read Romans 1st chapter.....you must be a believer and obedient to what God has ask of us to enter heaven.....Repent of even giving it a thought to turn from our Lords teachings.
YOu all want something to stand for.....BE A GOOD SOLDIER IN JESUS ARMY TAKES A LOT OF COURAGE, MORE THAN MOST HAVE
2007-10-12 13:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
umm, first of all, if you like her and you have a boyfriend, then you need to figure out what you want, not what other ppl do.
2007-10-12 12:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋