i have bpd, im 30 years old...im trying at the moment to get the right treatment & help for my disorder..which ive had since 15.
ive battled through endless trauma most of my life.
i just want to work on my disorder, so i can leave britain & build a new life....my ultimate aim is to emigrate either back to france or further out, somewhere far off & hot.
this is my prime ambition in life & something i have to do.
at the moment though i feel stuck, like im not going anywhere or it will be to difficult to accomplish my goals & im very depressed.
however. i feel i have haters here, that want to play mind games with me. patronize & undermine me.hamper my hopes in life.
because ive encountered alot of people like this.
people who maybe want to rubbish me as a person.
& recentley ive got the notion,that all these people are happy & relaxed & laughing amoungst themselves...because they know im never going anywhere,ill never leave the uk.
how can i handle this tormenting feeling?
2007-10-12 05:10:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You wrote: " i feel i have haters here, that want to play mind games with me. patronize & undermine me.hamper my hopes in life.
because ive encountered alot of people like this.
people who maybe want to rubbish me as a person."
Here is your affirmation, "I feel I have loving people here, that want to share with me. Who elevate me, bring me up, open doors for me. I am encountering a lot of people like this right now in this moment offortlessly, people who I know are wonderful to me as a person."
Let me ask you this... Did the first thing you wrote make you feel low energy, older, more tired? Did the second thing I revised make you feel more energy, younger, and a higher state of being?
If the positive affirmation made you question if it is real or the feeling that it is fake... It is merely because the world is your mirror. You cannot experience these feelings unless you believe that it is your own self image.
The question you ask is not really focused on what you are wanting. You want to heal, to get on with your life, however... What you are wanting is bombarded with a double negative... And I know this is not put in the way you want to hear it, but...
You are creating it.
Even though your mental state of mind is NOT your fault, you have to start doing positive affirmations to stay on track and create the healing you want.
2007-10-12 05:43:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all have people who do not like us, some because of the way we look and other by the things we do. Life is that away and you live it or else.
2007-10-12 20:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by Coop 366 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel as if you have haters, let them hate! People need haters! and that how life is.
Any body that dont have anybody to hate on feel free to hate on me!!
If you think people are making fun of you and laughing about how your never goin to go anywhere in life!! PROVE THEM WRONG!! And be happy with who you are and how god made you diese or not!
2007-10-12 12:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by Paige M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to understand and deeply digest... and BELIEVE... that your only limitations are self imposed... you can NOT depend on others to lift you to where you want to go... you have to surround yourself with supportive, positive people... and know that you are the master of your own destiny...
2007-10-12 12:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ignore them keep your dreams alive. if you really want something in life keep going be proud of yourself and proof them wrong .good luck
2007-10-12 12:20:21 · answer #5 · answered by LOUISE B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them and move on. You don't have time for them people. Think that you are better then them and move on.
2007-10-12 12:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋