What's the benefit of cheating? Why don't you just leave who you're with if you're not happy and move on?
2007-10-12 03:40:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They cheat because they are not really in love with the person they are with. I don't understand the whole cheating thing either, my older sister is the hugest cheat in the world and I couldn't imagine doing that to anyone.... maybe it's a self esteem issue? Maybe they are out there trying to find happiness? Not entirely sure.
2007-10-12 04:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by Betty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause where is the fun in that? I mean if you SO is providing you MOST of the things you want and some chick is willing to provide that one other piece, you know backdoor, bj, 3 some, that your SO won't then you take a gamble if you want. Then if you get caught you get burned.
Humans take risk and are not always smart.
2007-10-12 03:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For cheaters it's the thrill of the moment and lack of self control. They are very self-centered and have a difficult time thinking about anyone other than themselves.
2007-10-12 04:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by NanaCat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough to directly face hurting someone. Generally, I think because cheaters are cowards.
2007-10-12 03:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it's common sense, some ppl just stay with a person bc they know that person will do anything for them (basically a sucker), so they keep that person bc they just don't wanna be alone, but it doesn't mean they care for that person(selfishness).
2007-10-12 03:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by Mike luc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The diff between girlfriend and mistress = 30 lbs.
2007-10-12 03:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok so i was with this guy right and well i guess i wanted some and he wasnt around and i was mad cuz i thought that he had cheated on me and i was mad at my cousin so i did her boyfriend which just happend to be one of my guys best friends... well my best friend told him and we broke up... then like two years later september 9th we got back together but im doing it again. but i dont get to see him and its been like4 days since he called me but you know i love him but i also love one of the guys im cheating on him with then the other one is just convient. i dont know why im doing it now..... but i do love him i know that
2007-10-12 05:15:13 · answer #7 · answered by aroura 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its in the past and some are trapped financially...so dont judge cuz God doesnt need your help...i could write a whole book afout that fool that promised to cherish...what a joke..
2007-10-12 03:50:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't about sex, so much as it was about the hunt itself!! I was pretty young & immature, just came home from war, wanted my life back!!!
2007-10-12 04:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe cause we get tired of the same and want a different taste every once in a while.
2007-10-12 03:49:36 · answer #10 · answered by txladybug_2 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋