i am gay, what if i discovered that my masseur is straight?
what if she is turned on? what if she touched my parts?
how should i react?
2007-10-12 03:36:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
EDIT:
You're a sharp one "chiliswo..."....!
2007-10-12 03:51:46 · update #1
LMFAO!!!
Awesome!!!
Hey, do you think straights should be allowed to teach children?
What about straights as doctors?
I don't know, I think it's all just asking for trouble!
2007-10-12 03:46:12 · answer #1 · answered by DEATH 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough question to decide. How can you tell if your masseur was gay? I wouln't worry about him so much. Try not to be much of a homophobe when it comes to the idea. Masseurs are professionally licensed people who are GREAT at what they do. It is in their training where they learn to find someones points. But it is also within their profession NOT to turn business into pleasure (read their guidelines). There are a small amount of masseurs that actually include pleasure into their means of business. I should know..I was stationed in Korea and I saw it at practially every massage parlor I walked by (but I wouldn't pay for someone else to jack me off...thats why I've got both of my hands for). If you get an erection during the massage session, do not be alarmed. It is quite natural to feel that way. Like I said, it's within their profession to find your points and those points automatically trigger feelings towards other parts of your body that you cannot control. Your masseur "SHOULD BE" working around the erect penis (if it happens) rather than to touch it or instigate it more. If they turn it into a pleausre matter then they are breaking their own rules. That's how you can get them in trouble. Sorry if I seem to go on forever, but to simply answer your question. Do not try to find out if your masseur is gay or not. He is trained not to touch your parts unless it is within his guidelines and if you are paying for that type of service (but in this matter I can see that you would'nt because you are straight). If he does touch what he's not suppose to, push him off (not forcefully) and simply say that you feel uncomfortable and he should understand. If it persists, then he can lose his license. Hope this helps!
2016-05-22 01:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by margarite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon, Jake, this is a trick question, right? Since a massuer is male and a masseuse is a female, and you say "she" regarding your masseur, but insist on the str8 label, we have to assume cross-dressing hetero...or super-butch daughter of Sappho...or pre-surgery she-male...or full transex....?!? Oy.
Okay, I was going somewhere with this but...umm...oh... HARRY KILLS VOLDEMORT!
Move along folks, nothing to see here...
2007-10-12 12:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by Cappo359 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep! A female masseur is called a masseuse!
2007-10-12 03:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
the proper termonology would be massage therapist, and i am currntly going to school to become one. if she is transferring feelings onto you in any sexual way at all, then definetly report her, we are not allowed to do this and it can actually make the client (being you) have a horrible massage, instead of being relaxed, you are worrying about wether or not she is going to make a move, and you should not have to pay for a massage that you did not enjoy (non sexually) my advice is either, if you have been going to her for a while, then talk to her about it, and if you dont feel you can talk to her about it, then go and see a different massage therapist..... good luck
2007-10-12 19:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY!!! That is funny! Something similar to this happened to me recently.
I had to get a medical exam for a visa to Canada. And when I went my doctor was a woman. And she had to check for hernias, if you know what I mean. I just kept telling myself "she's a doctor, she's a doctor" so I didn't throw up!!!
2007-10-12 04:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by Tikhacoffee/MisterMoo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A masseur/ masseuse is a professional. They should not be touching any of your "parts". If they do it is called sexual harassment and you should file a complaint with whoever licensed her.
Who cares what sexuality your "masseur" has?
2007-10-12 03:49:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
LMAO! How would you know she is turned on. If she is touching your parts you better run. It could be a police sting.
2007-10-12 03:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LMAO Jake!!! I totally busted out laughing with that one.
2007-10-12 03:41:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well you can put her down easily, just tell her you are flattered, but you play for the other team.......
2007-10-12 04:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Judy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋