parents ever told you that if you do ever want to leave them then that you have to stop calling them mom and dad and that they will pretend that you don't even exist and won't consider you their child?
2007-10-09 20:48:21 · 18 answers · asked by NoLongerHere 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
How unbelievably cruel!! A parent should want their child to grow up and to have their independence!! I have had fights with my Dad where he has told me if I walked out the door to never come back but he said it in anger and didn't mean it!! If these people are this cruel then why would you want any more of it?? Maybe that is where your true freedom is going to come from!!
2007-10-10 04:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by Ginny 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, but my mom beat me when I was little and locked me out of the house. She would ignore me for days when she got mad at me. She was very messed up.
If your parents said that, I am sorry for you. That is very unloving and also manipulative. It's wrong to tell someone you can't leave or you will be rejected forever.
I wish you knew Jesus Christ. He's my God. He is the one who loves us all. He rescued me from emotional, physical and spiritual death when I was 18. I planned how to kill myself, but then called a crisis line. A person on the line got me in touch with some Christians. I hung around them for a while and decided I wanted Jesus to come in and take care and control of my life. I put him in charge on October 21, 1971, on a Thursday night between 7:30 and 9:00 PM, in San Antonio, Texas. I've never, ever been sorry I gave my life to him. No matter how often or how badly I ever messed up Jesus has never threatened to take his love away or to kick me out of his family. His love is forever. I wish you would just talk to him, that's all prayer is. He wants to help you and you know you need help and hope. That's why you wrote your question. Don't lose heart, sweetie!
2007-10-10 04:08:13 · answer #2 · answered by LeslieAnn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Nor would I ever say that to one of my kids. A parents job is to teach you how to survive in this world, have social skills, an education, a belief system - and then send you out to make your way!
2007-10-11 00:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
something like that..... they told me that they wont want me to call them mom and dad, nad that id have to pay rent to live in my own house.... lots of other crap, but thats the one that hurt the most
2007-10-11 01:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by xeroxed 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. That would be messed up and I really then wouldn't want to talk to them or see them again.
2007-10-10 03:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are your parents taking medication for their attitude?
2007-10-10 03:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by Mike D 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
uhh no!
my 'rents love me and they said if i ever wanted to go abroad for studies and leave them they will happily accept it cuz its my dads dream for me to go abroad and study!
=)
2007-10-10 03:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by G4L. 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no, that would have seemed kind of harsh to do when i got married and moved out...in that case i don't think i would want to talk to them anymore.
2007-10-10 03:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by alishadai 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
they tell me to leave everytime i ask them for money to pay for my hospital bill.
2007-10-10 03:53:04 · answer #9 · answered by King K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh gosh, No...
That would be horrible!
Did your parents say that to you? ...you poor thing..
2007-10-10 03:57:13 · answer #10 · answered by VanityPerfection. 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋