we met in a shopping mall... i like him and i can tell he likes me, but it seems like all he wanted from me was to have sex because he kept on making signals looking at me... stuff like that, i didnt know what to do so i just left him without giving him my number or anything... now i cant stop thinking about him, did i do the right thing?
2007-10-09 20:44:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes you did the right thing, no-one should ever pressure or suggest doing something with you that you don't feel comfortable doing. Its unfortunate that there still exists a pretty ugly stereotype that all gay people want to do is have sex.. of course thats wrong and there are people who will be willing to accept you and be your friend before they become anything more serious. But of course on the other hand if you feel ready then do what you feel is right, there is a place in your heart that tells you what you really want and you need to listen to that.
Best of luck!
2007-10-10 15:59:10 · answer #1 · answered by Kuy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably sized him up correctly. Did you do the right thing? Depend on what you want. If you needed some NSA release, then you probably missed an opportunity. But if you wanted more than that, you probably did the right thing. For that matter, it's always good to err on the side of caution.
2007-10-10 04:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by Clint 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you did what your impulse told you to do then, but for now, i guess you have madly been infatuated over his looks... theres no harm in trying to approach and befriend the guy, ask for his numbers, if he wants sex then perhaps you could decline him and yet still made a new acquiantance along the way. if its meant to be, then its meant to be for both of you to meet up again somewhere along the way
2007-10-09 20:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by nicklaus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what signal he gave you? o_o
well, regarding you quesiton, if you wanted to have fun with no string attached, then leaving that georous hunk behind is a stupid thing to do. However, if you prefer to lower your risk of getting HIV infected and having a healthy relationship - fantasizing and sticking to your hand is the best option.
2007-10-09 21:14:08 · answer #4 · answered by sketchsangel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have said it before, and I will say it again, "Maintain Your dignity". One night stands are not a good look. If He is really interested in You He will introduce Himself properly when next You meet.
2007-10-09 21:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably did the magnificent factor if his advances made you uncomfortable. although, till now you leap to any conclusions why do no longer you invite him out to get something to consume and get to understand him greater perfect - perhaps to procure the incorrect theory. in case you like him then a minimum of locate out his intentions till now you walk away.
2016-10-08 22:59:59 · answer #6 · answered by thao 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother with him. Find a partner who is interested in you. It makes the sex much more fun!
2007-10-09 20:50:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you did
moving on is the best option
find someone who will treat u right
2007-10-09 20:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by robbyack2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go talk to him...if the atraction was obvious and mutual then ask him...say listen...i like you, your hot, would you like to go out sometime....if he says yes then let him know your limits...if he doesnt agree he will let you know one way or hte other
2007-10-09 20:48:41 · answer #9 · answered by DUDE Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you did the right thing
2007-10-09 20:54:58 · answer #10 · answered by trenticles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋