2007-10-09 19:40:09 · 30 answers · asked by goodguy4u63 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Someone who doesn't put family first and have any values or morals.
2007-10-09 19:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by munkees81 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I can't believe a few of these answers. Some others I agree with 100%.
I would hope that my son doesn't marry someone who treats him as an equal. That's what I want for my son, someone who is respectful, loving and fun. She can be religious, she can have what ever religion she wants. She can be any color.
I'd like to slap that person who said Not a Jew or Christian. That is so damn disgusting, I can't believe in this day and age people are still so disgusting and closed minded. Why wouldn't you want your child to be happy?
I know the answer to that, I'm not going to say it though. That person is clearly uneducated. That's all.
2007-10-10 05:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by musicpanther67 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh I brought that guy home once. We had known each other a month and were telling everyone we were getting married. I was in my second year at college when I met him and started failing classes because i was staying at his house all the time. He didnt have a job, and had been arrested numerous times, he had 3 children already and had allegedly beat his girlfriend from before. Well I dropped out of school and moved back home with my folks after my grandmother died. He and my mom fought alot because he said he was going to have me in his life no matter what. I stayed with him countless nights and began feeling like I was there to be his maid/cook/plaything and that was it. Eventually I found out he was still cheating on me with his ex-girlfriend (the one he beat). Thank God I got outa there.
2007-10-10 08:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by bella_babe_86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first I was going to say controlling, but ... then I read the answer about the older person. That's it: I fear her hanging around with a lecherous loser who is enough older than her to know better, when she is still young and doesn't understand the difference in age. YUCKO!
I have nothing against "May-December" relationships ... as long as the younger person is at least about 28, or both people are under 30ish. Otherwise it strikes me as really icky. I don't think I would accept it if my daughter at, say, 18, brought home a guy, even a nice successful one, who was 35. *shudder* (And the same goes if it were my son with an older woman. Even if my child was gay -- it's the age that'd freak me out)
2007-10-09 19:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by zilmag 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well if my daughter brought home a boy who was mean to her, or who abused her I would not want or allow him to marry her. If she brought home a lazy boy who didn't want to support her but who would rather have her support him I would kick him to the curb. I would welcome a real man who treated my daughter as a gift. I have a 25 year old son who I would expect him to choose well for a wife when he is ready but right now he is a college student.
2007-10-09 23:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by Georgia Preacher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I had a child I wouldn't want them to have a mate who will try and abuse them, make them feel like they are nothing, get them pregnant but [mentally, phyiscally, and emotionally] abuse her and make the child feel bad, one that is kinda crazy, one that has problems with anger, etc.
2007-10-10 04:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by --; cookie. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone who talks and talks and talks and can't shut up for one minute. And to top it off they go and yap to the rest of the world about all our family secrets and the "bad" habits that we have. And that she would live next door to us and ruin our son by making him a slave to her. She'll spend all the money and then divorce him and because they have kids he'll have to pay crazy child support for the rest of his poor life. And she'd be so crazy, before the divorce he joins the war and ends up dying of something.
The list could go on forever but truthfully I think it's best to focus on what I do want for my son. And he's a pretty good kid so things will be alright.
2007-10-09 19:48:42 · answer #7 · answered by tofu 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I secretly fear that my children might one day bring home someone who is an Atheist. We are a Christian family, and I just think that it would be a very tough relationship when both people are not on the same page when it comes to God.
So I would be afraid if they brought home someone who doesnt beleive in God, It would be hard trying to tell them the truth.
2007-10-09 20:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by butterrum28 5 · 4⤊ 5⤋
Anyone that treats her badly. I fear that because that would mean I didn't do my job well enough as a mother if she doesn't care about herself enough to let someone she only wants to love do mean things to her.
2007-10-09 19:44:05 · answer #9 · answered by ct_girl02 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A prostitute, a woman with 4 children, a married woman and last but not least an old woman.
2007-10-09 20:26:20 · answer #10 · answered by Mom2aGirlandaBoy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
a big oranged-haired man wearing earings from head to toes with eye-patch, clothes from prison cells, and stiches everywhere.
2007-10-09 23:50:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋