My mom controls every aspect of my life and it is making me sad and miserable...I hate my life so much...
2007-10-09 19:26:50 · 18 answers · asked by NoLongerHere 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
That sucks!
But I don't have someone like that in my life. Just all this pressure and expectations from everyone. I am just torn... I want to just live my life. Maybe it would help if we move out? Oh, I wish!
2007-10-09 19:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by Bunny Boiler 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes-me! It sounds like you need to talk to a school counsellor, a relative or your best friends mom to see if there is any intervention that can be done with your mom.
All of your questions are so pain-filled and sad that I worry you will not see beyond the negative or sad now to a better tomorrow. If she is physically or verbally abusive you need immediate help! Call the police, get another trusted adult involved but do not believe that abuse is the same as love!
If it is not abuse but over controlling, can you talk to her? Can you talk to any close adult that might intervene? Can you realize that you need not live this way forever but that soon you will be an adult and can leave to live your life as you see fit?
I don't know the details of your life or how long it will be before you can break away. I do know that you need to concentrate on the things that will serve you well when it is time to be on your own. Do well in school. Learn a trade.Get a job if it is allowed and save your money. Keep yourself out of any trouble so there is less ammunition for mom to be negative.
It can and will get better.
2007-10-10 18:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, moms really like to do that, I'm not sure why, give yourself as much space as you can, sign up for extracurricular activities, do homework at the library, etc. Some moms are crazy and they have a calendar with their kids homework assigments on it. When I was in Elementary school my mom would complete projects for me that she didn't think I could complete. To this day, I cannot help her out in the kitchen because she will yell and say I'm doing things wrong. She is SUCH a control freak just thinking about it makes me want to scream. Get a part time job and start saving up money so that you can move out as soon as you can LOL.
2007-10-09 19:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by SugarFrog46 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How is your Mom able to control every aspect of your life?? I am having to stay with my parents right now because of an injury and luckily they don't try to control everything in my life!! Is there anyway that you can do to make changes to stop it from happening??
2007-10-10 03:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by Ginny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 22:56:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? if you're still a kid or teen, she does have control over you-you're life's not that miserable, I wish I was young again! (wait till you get to be an adult or parent with kids, bills to pay, responsabilities, etc. & you'll think twice...)
2007-10-09 19:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Benjamin Franklin, Alexander Hamilton, U.S. Grant et al.
2007-10-09 19:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one.
I divorced the last one that
just thought he could control me.
I tried to explain to him
from the beginning,
that," I do not play well with others".
I guess he didn't believe me,
till they served him with the divorce papers.
Surprise!
2007-10-09 19:34:10 · answer #8 · answered by ♫ Bubastes, Cat Goddess♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My man sometimes can be a little controlling but not too much.
2007-10-09 19:29:10 · answer #9 · answered by ♥c0c0puffz♥ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I know you think you hate her and you hate your life, but she's only trying to protect you. Give her a break.
2007-10-09 19:30:23 · answer #10 · answered by Rebecca M 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋