I'm not going to lie, I like to be whipped and spanked for sexual pleasure. Is this "normal" in the sense that it is quite normal that different things turn people on or is it a sign of "something being wrong with me"?
2007-10-09 17:11:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It's perfectly normal...believe me...we all have that one thing in us that is weird and being spanked is one of yours. Now if you like being spanked by everyone that's a problem
2007-10-09 17:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very interesting! First of all I suppose that we have to consider 'what is normal.' Take it away from sex and put it in to other contexts. A vegetarian wouldn't eat meat but an omnivore would. Remember all the hoo-ha over sheep being fed with ground animal and scropies (or scrapies - can't remember what they called it! Cattle being fed with the by-product of the sheep and getting BSE? Both animals are naturally veggie and were given an unnatural diet. Causes problems! Another way of looking at it is quite simply bowel movements. For some people it is normal to have just one movement a day or maybe one every two days but for another it may be four or five a day. So, we can establish that 'normal' is what is right for a particular person. I know a girl who describes herself as being a lesbian but in actual fact she 'swings both (or any) ways' and just seems to like sex with anyone or anything! To me that is a deviation - but is it for her? I also believe that homosexuality is a medical condition but with the relaxation of the law on the subject we now have people who choose to be homosexual rather than being medically homosexual. Being a medical homosexual is normal for the person. By choosing to be homosexual, it is a deviation - but that is just my opinion. Other sexual deviations from what is accepted as being normal could include oral sex and buggery. As far as I am aware, it is still illegal to have anal sex even if the two adults are consenting. And there is the big question! How are 'they' under the new Mental Health Act going to enforce this if the two parties consent? Do we all run to the police/a solicitor (pardon that one as a pun) or Parliament saying that we have consented to indulge in a deviant sexual act? I think that the point here must be made that the real crux of the matter is to consent - and therefore rape, (albeit whether the victim is alive or dead) can surely be the only enforcable sexual deviancy. And as for the mind control bit - it isn't just sex or mental health areas they are doing this in - and it isn't just Tony Blair (I blame the Euro Parliament for a lot of it). I think that a lot of the laws that are around now are just made by silly people that are paid high salarys and have too much time or their hands to find something that they can restrict us on next. By the way, I am a happily married and (mostly) law abiding heterosexual.
2016-05-20 03:56:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of people like you and there have been for centuries, so I wouldn't worry! Human sexuality is extremely complex and no-one has quite managed to find all the answers yet.
What is morally right or wrong can often be reduced to the 'harm principle'. That means that the only actions that are wrong or immoral are those which harm others or ourselves.
Like everything else, moderation is good. So long as your sexuality doesn't upset you and doesn't become an obsession, there's nothing wrong with it.
Enjoy it!
2007-10-09 17:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by The Thing Is 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like to take things to the extreme and find new and different ways to thrill you which can be from a mental problem. However as long as the other person is consenting and doesn't mind...it is no bodies problem but your own. There are many people out there with worse problems if that is the least of yours consider yourself better off them some.
2007-10-09 17:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by Ddvanyway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deviation yes,mental problem,Not really.While most would say that it's nothing wrong but still,it's not normal and may aggravate or cause other problems later.It's better to handle it now and it can be done.Do give it a try.
2007-10-09 19:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a lil weird, but not deviancy. Or a mental problem. If the other party consents, carry on.
2007-10-09 17:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very common; whether people admit it or not is another story.
Something is only 'wrong' with you if your desires could cause unconsentual harm to another or fatal harm to yourself.
Adults + Consent = it's all gud.
2007-10-09 17:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by lucy_shy8000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. Different strokes for different folks! If you and your partners are comfortable with it, and nobody is being abused, go crazy and have fun!
2007-10-09 17:15:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you do not go too far, there is not anything terribly wrong with it. Its not for me, but I am not you. Yaa meen?
2007-10-09 17:19:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it' normal...every person has his own way to fight sexual pleasure
2007-10-09 17:24:14 · answer #10 · answered by Jet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋