My basic philosophy is this: I will love whoever the f*ck I want, whenever the f*ck I want, whyever the f*ck I want, and I'll show that love however the f*ck I want. If you don't like that, f*ck you.
As a friend once put it, "I don't give two s*hits what's in pants. I love hearts, not bodies or sexual organs."
I'm open to the possibility of falling in love with another female. In fact, I'd say it's just as likely as falling in love with a man, in my case. However, I've never been attracted to a female. But I'm open to the possibility.
So, I tend to find filling in the "orientation" section of online profiles slightly difficult. If I say "men," I may lose an opportunity to get to know a girl that's looking for someone. Therefore, I'd say "both," however, I'm not sure if I really "count as" bisexual, as I've not yet been attracted to a female. And if I leave it blank, then I receive a LOT of inquiries as to my orientation.
Any suggestions, or enlightenment here??
2007-10-09 14:58:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Enfildate--but it's just as likely, in my case, that I'll fall in love with a female, as a man.
Thus far, I've not even been attracted to many men--in my age group, very few people are intellectually attractive, which is what matters, to me. Therefore, I've never actually felt I loved a guy, either, except as friends; the way I've loved guys so far, is the same way I've loved girls.
As for physically, I find them both equally attractive.
2007-10-09 15:07:51 · update #1
ummmm DUDE....I couldnt EVER fall in love with a guy....
guys are disgusting! I WOULD KNOW!
lol
but women are gorgeous precious creatures and we need to care for them. You can join me if you want. 3some what?
2007-10-10 14:28:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, I don't think you should worry so much about labeling yourself. Honestly, if I was in your shoes I would leave that section blank, that way you're not confusing anyone as to whether or not you're a lesbian/bi/straight. If a situation comes up where another woman would be interested in knowing if you are bi then just go with the flow. Get to know her and if you think that there might be something there just let her know how you feel and that you are indeed open to the possibility of having a relationship with her. There's really no reason of filling out the orientation section if you don't feel that you can label yourself.
2007-10-09 22:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are straight (heterosexual). There has been a study, and it is shown that most people have had sexual, loving thoughts about the same sex. I've had those ideas two. Since i am a guy (don;t start calling me a perv) i can get an errection when im arroused, ive never ever ever ever been aroused by a guy. I think you are straight!
2007-10-09 22:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it would be great if they had an other category, then you could fill in the blank, OPEN MINDED. I like your ideas on love, its very enlightened, for all age groups.
2007-10-09 22:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Leave it blank and let them ask you and tell them what you just said here that your not sure about being with another girl, but you've thought of it.
2007-10-09 22:07:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
leave it blank, cause you're not sure.
I really like how your friend put that. And that's really cool that you're so open minded.
I wish there were a lot more people like you and your friend around.
2007-10-09 22:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by blueJay 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with what your saying.Thats just the society we live in. constantly putting labels on everything. My best advice to you is to continue living your life the way you please. your not hurting anyone.
2007-10-09 22:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by sweety Returnz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋