well i have been talking to this girl for like 3 weeks i told her how i felt about her since day one..we went out to eat once...i gave her my number and she never called....we work together so one day i wrote to her in a email and told her how i felt about her all she responded was"he he you making me blush"since then i been writing little love quotes and leaving them in her desk every morning for like 2 days...today i saw her and we was talking she told me thank you for the notes she told me she is collecting them....u think thats a sign that i do got a chance with her or she just said that to not make me feel bad...remind you she is older than me and i told her in that same email from before that if i was bothering her to let her know and i will respectfully back off...so u think theres a chance or no??
2007-10-09 13:56:23 · 7 answers · asked by kid233 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-10-09 14:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by Larry J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there's no chance. If there was a chance, you'd know by now. Sometimes it's fun to let guys do goofy things like this, especially when you're sharing it with your friends and having a laugh.
The best kind of lead on is for male chauvanist who will insist on always paying for every date, this kind of guy is good for four or five free dates, if you endure him then you've got to shoot down his lead in for the 'first kiss' (because a proper lady doesn't kiss so early in a relationship LOL) and then dump him in a public place of course, because these type of chivalrous men are all misogynsts at heart and think that paying for dinner equates to paying for sex. (Just letting you know what women think, so go dutch if you don't want to be made a fool of again)
2007-10-09 14:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by some female 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and ask her if the age difference bothers her. Tell her it does not bother you and tell her how you feel about her. There may be nothing there chemistry-wise, and then you would have to just move on. But I really hope she will give it a chance. I am a staunch advocate of age-gap relationships (I am 14 years older than my husband, me/39 him/25). Good luck. I hope she gives it a try.
2007-10-09 14:19:27 · answer #3 · answered by TwyztedChyck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you should back off on your own. at least a little. You don't want to come on too strong, or give her a "stalker vibe". Just say you usual friendly "Hello's". Let her be the one to initiate a conversation or an email.....then you'll see if it's mutual, or just being conservative of your feelings. That way, you won't put too much effort into it, then find out that maybe she doesn't feel the same way you do. Hope this helps.
2007-10-09 14:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip man. Women are not attracted by this approach. This makes you a nice guy that she will always like but never lbe intimate with. At some point you might get a sympathy date but that's it. This situation is probably beyond redemption, but you better start ignoring her right away and see if she initiates contact.
2007-10-09 14:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you have a chance.. so go for it! Just do not let it end your life if it does not work out. There will always be another woman for you to be sweet too.
Good luck.
2007-10-09 14:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sooo....Take a chance ask her out!
2007-10-09 14:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋