Not what I used to be see ?s below?

Question

I am in my late 30s and in my 20s I was married and I LOVE to go out and do things and I was never home. My husband and I were always visiting people or doing something. That was a very speical time in our lives.

But I am closer to 40 and I have noticed I have slowed down, I like to cook more and want to try new recepies, I sleep more and I dont always like to go out as much as I used to I do like to swim in the pool and enjoy going on the computer as well.

Also I am not what I used to be I used to be very energetic and hyper in my 20s and the extra energy served me well when I worked and did a lot in my 12 years of employment.

But I have slowed down and much calmer and a little more reserved. Is this normal? And it it normal as a woman to go through these seasons of life?

Answer 1

Everyone changes through their life. It's natural. Your life experiences change you, your responsibilites change you, children change you. You learn how to love different things that are important to you as you grow. Just because you aren't 20 something and wanting to stay out all night doesn't mean you aren't experiencing life to it's fullest. It's a great thing to find you have all these different parts of you to discover as you age. Enjoy them and know you will find even more as you go. Who knows...when you're 50 you may discover you want to go sky diving. It's all a fun ride to the end. Just be who you are becoming and don't let the age put you away.

Answer 2

Sweet pea, ask whether or not are you happy with yourself and others surrounding you?
If this isn't normal, then why would you think so? Do you still have the urge to do things you and your husband did while back?
At any point in your life if you're happy then you shouldn't be asking this question unless you're confused and dunno which roads of life may lead to your partner's and yours happiness, ya know? What is the norm in your own opinion?
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