i met this great guy who has been divorced for 2 years. he has a child from a girlfriend he dated for 3 months. this is his only child. they are fighting for custody and other things that happen within their 3 month relationship. this guy & i have dated for almost 6 months & we get along wonderful with life, goals, wants, sexual, etc. he has a home in another state & a rv that he stays in when traveling for work. he is a construction general contractor. he flys to my city each weekend to spend time with me and have a rental in a city next to me. we are always together at my place and he continues to pay rent for the rental. we have decided for him to move in with me since we love each other & are at my place during the weekends anyway. am i moving too fast? should we be moving in only because of love and not convienence? should i be worried that he may be using me? i have met his child, the child's mother, and family who also live in my city. we are good together. so why am i worried?
2007-10-09 12:42:04 · 5 answers · asked by Virgo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is normal to be worried. It does sound like it is moving fast but sometimes that happens. Sometimes things work out great. My husband and I went out on Aug29th. I moved in a few months later with my two year old. 14 1/2 years and two more children later things are still great. Good luck to you. I hope that it works out for the best. If moving in is what you want him to do then go for it.
2007-10-09 15:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will suggest you to take it slow.. why don't you spend time at his rental place when he is there??? Try to spend some time there just to see if he is not hidding somthing from you.. have long talks I did this with my now hubby even if i have known him since we were kids I believed that i need it to know more.. On time when i took vacations I travel to his place of work surprise him and make him stay at his place.. we had a great time for 4 days and 2 of those days after having sex we stay late talking about past, present and even future.. so by that i get to meet him more.. and is you have a "nice relationship with any sis or even mom you can go ahead and talk to them in a nice way to tell funny stories about him is he a good brother or son things like that ... And if later on you think it is OK to move then do it and enjoy your relationship have a good communication and trust each other.. So good luck!! & best wishes!!
2007-10-09 12:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when children are involved don't move in. his first priority is his kids. you need to think about this guy who was with a girl for three months had a baby and is just gone through a divorce, I would bet the divorce from #1 had something to do with the Girlfriend that had baby or other girls. in other words he plays around, he travels alot and I would bet has girls all over.you should not move in because it would be cost effective. if your short on money they get a less expensive place and/or 2nd job, I would dump the guy and do not move in with him to see if it would work out he's going through alot.
2007-10-09 13:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by jeanniep 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too soon when there is baggage.
2007-10-09 12:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell me. #
2007-10-09 12:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by nhuvi j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋