well im in the 7th and he is in the 8th and i really like him sooo much. I call him sexy all the time and draw his name on almost all my papers! Yesterday my friend told me to talk to him at 3rd period, well before. I saw him and called out his name and said hi and wave. We had eye contact for like 4 seconds and i felt so weird and jittery. I never had the courage to talk to him and i want to talk to him so we can get to know each other.
HOW CAN I GET THE COURAGE TO TALK TO HIM STRAIGHT UP???
2007-10-09 12:32:52 · 23 answers · asked by missy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i know in junior high they have these monthly dances at some schools. there is halloween coming up this month.. there must be a dance or an after school something to bring the kids together...
look him up at that occasion and walk up to him.. say hi smile and ask something stupid like is there anything to drink in this place... he will laugh and u may kind of walk him to the treats table and offer him something... it sounds stupid, but it will brake the ice and help both of u relax. at ur age boy and girls think it is a big deal to talk to a person u like..u shake, sweat, shiver inside, but in the end u r both kids trying to grow up..sane... it is no big deal... take it from me...i am a guidance counselor and have seen this a million times... relax ..he is just as scared as u and if u like him chances are he likes u 2. it is a reality... u like him, he likes u ...u hate him he hates u back...
this is going to happen forever until u are a junior or a senior in high school. by then, u will feel more relaxed and boys will not give u the jitters when u want to talk to them...
one more thing.... do not try too hard... be urself and make a good impression not acting girly silly...boys make fun of girls who are too girly and too silly...no squeicky voice..either..u know that high pitch voice some girls use to call attention to thmselves.. not nice.. BE URSELF, act like u...and relax... it is prettier and
2007-10-09 12:52:41 · answer #1 · answered by colonita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all RELAX!!! He would prolly be nervous to talk to you too! And you had classic "butterflys" for that moment. Remember, you are the girl, you're in charge! :) Just strike up a random conversation maybe. Do you have any friends in common? Or know someone close to him? You could have them kinda bring you into the mix maybe. What is he into that you're into? That could be a good convo topic. Don't be afraid, just find some common ground to start from, maybe hang out at a sports game or concert, and go from there. Being friends is a good way to start a relationship. Just make sure he knows that you like him more than friends!!! But that's a whole nother question right there! Good Luck!!!
2007-10-09 19:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by fordoffroad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice.
Seriously, this is a skill that can be learned. Tough thing is though that you're going to have to fake it a little before you really feel comfortable actually talking to him (or guys in general).
You'll get a lot of good advice about how to go about doing it, but the fact is that only you can actually go and make it happen.
Those feelings are perfectly normal. Now go get 'im kid!
2007-10-09 19:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he gets a good grade, say he did a good job. little things like this will build his trust and you WILL end up with a good relationship. Just talk, he probably feels the same way too and he'll be glad when you break the ice.
2007-10-09 19:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by Dancergirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem as you. all i had to do was walk up to her and say it to her face... i think that if you did that then maybe he would ask you out. talk to him more! hang out with his friends, but dont be clingy. its hard but if you find the right balance you can get this guy to fall for you. dont forget that courage is everything
2007-10-09 19:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by gaara_o_sand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in 7th grade, all I thought about was football... A future cheerleader asked me out and I rejected her. CLEVER ME! So, guys at that age are STILL not ready for relationships... BUT you can take your chances
2007-10-09 19:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called a crush. People always have public speaking issues under pressure, but doing it helps them grow up.
If you really want this to happen, don't get a quote from us. You need to just do it.
2007-10-09 19:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm just guessing you haven't had a boyfriend before.
don't be so clingy, just be calm cool and collected.
start casual conversations with him when you see him, like hi, what's new, how are you, what class do you have next.
simple things to start. or tell him you like his shirt of he smells good. it will probably be easier to have a friend with you, maybe have them say hi first, then you feed him a compliment.
try to contain your buterflies
that's all i got
2007-10-09 19:38:40 · answer #8 · answered by COFFEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU WANT TO KNOW HIM BETTER, MAKE A LIST OF QUESTIONS YOU WOULD LIKE TO ASK HIM. AND SINCE HE DOESN'T KNOW YOU AND YOU DON;T KNOW HIM----- YOU (2) TWO ONLY KNOW OF EACH OTHER. ASK HIM ANY AND EVERYTHING. PAST, PRESENT AND FUTURE QUESTIONS. LEAVE NOTHING FOR THE IF OR SHOULD HAVE. THEN AND ONLY THEN THINK ABOUT, WOULD HE BE SOMEONE YOU WOULD WANT TO ASSOCIATE WITH. DON'T WORRY ABOUT WHAT YOUR FRIENDS MAY THINK. IT'S YOUR LIFE.
2007-10-09 19:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by benejueves 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should reall concentrate on school at your age, you have plenty of time for the boys, but if it means that much, wright hem a letter I have always found it easyer to put my thoughts on paper,also it gives me time to think what i'mgoing to say so it will not sound dumb.
2007-10-09 19:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by jay perez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋