resentments can turn into positive things sometimes?
2007-10-09 11:38:55 · 9 answers · asked by Pavic 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
not that i can think of. i'm the 'forgive and forget' type, but i do take lessons from experiences and become more cautious of one who wrongs me.
i feel that harboring grudges is a waste of energy, especially if one amuses oneself with imagined plots of revenge.
2007-10-09 11:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe you can learn from your resentments. At least I did.
2007-10-09 11:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by Me, again 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not until you let them go.
You cannot move positively into your future of non-resentment until you let it go.
If you don't you taint your future.
Their are more positive things to use for fuel if you need motivation.
2007-10-09 11:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by Bianca 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure...if you choose to make the positive transition from allowing it to be a draining force upon you to becoming an example of what you don't want to become.
2007-10-09 12:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by gldnsilnc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your body and soul have to be really wise for that. It takes a human years of soulsearching to achieve that. Well, I think unfortunately, a small percentage is capable of that. Certainly not me, although, I try very hard.
2007-10-09 11:43:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's positive when we cease to care that much.
2007-10-09 11:42:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It did for me because I so wanted to prove that person wrong.
2007-10-09 11:44:23 · answer #7 · answered by manonski 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if they make you aware of potential problems then...yes.
2007-10-09 11:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not for me,not yet anyway*!*
2007-10-09 11:42:18 · answer #9 · answered by back to basics 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋