we have been going out for a year and a month now and some times when he is on the computer or watching tv or doing nothing, i will try to kiss him and/or tell him i love him, but for some reason he says it's getting a little annoying.
so i was wondering if theres anything i can do to show him that i love him without annoying him. any suggestions?
2007-10-09 11:08:53 · 12 answers · asked by D.J. Corona 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It seems that you have different ways of expressing the affection, observe him probably be slightly cold to express, you are not one that has a problem he is the one that cannot answer to your affection. hugs for you
2007-10-09 11:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by elCartero ओ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd be kind of wondering about the relationship if he gets annoyed with you telling him you love him... is he really committed to the relationship?
Just spend some time together watching tv or whatever, another way of showing your love is fixing something for dinner that he loves to eat...
2007-10-09 16:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are giving a very brief snapshot of your relationship, where the reality is there has to be the whole picture to consider in order to give a true answer. What I would say is a relationship is about compromise. Your bf needs to realise that sometimes affection needs to be communicated in a relationship and that is your way. However you also need to understand that sometimes people feel awkward when affection is too much in your face!
So talk about things let each other know how you feel and encourage your bf to feel comfoartable about expressing how he feels, even if it is in a different way to how you would!
2007-10-09 11:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by waggy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sneak into his car when he is not looking and leave a sticky note on the dash board saying " this car belongs to the boy i love" or something like that. or write a love letter on the bathroom mirror with a dry erase marker and wipe it of, when he has a shower the message will still be there in the steamed mirror. do little things that he will find while your not around when he's by himself
2007-10-09 18:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by nakedboi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of ways to show someone you care or love them, make dinner for them (favorite meals), do something for him without him asking (not something you think he would like, something you know about him); getting things done around the house, etc.
HOWEVER... if you try to think of different ways to show him you love him, and he doesn't respond or responds negatively, it is a sure sign that he has commitment issues and issues with relationships. It doesn't mean he is cold-hearted necessarily; it could just mean he doesn't know how to deal with affection and intimacy, and I would suggest couples therapy, if nothing else works. Go to therapy yourself if you have to. BUT drag his @ss to it evenutally!
2007-10-09 16:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by dreamsasylum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just aren't that affectionate, especially in public, or preceived public spaces. Talk to him and find out what he is confortable with.
2007-10-10 09:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by Tim A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend tells me that too.
It kind of hurts my feelings and you feel that she perhaps doesn't feel the same way about you. I asked her why and she explained to me that I don't need to do that all the time because she knows how I feel about her and it scares her because no one has felt that way about her before and she hasn't felt how she feels about me before either.
Sometimes there's more to it. Maybe if you talk to him about it without pressuring him maybe that would help you understand or something.
2007-10-09 12:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by matchbook1984 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wait for him to initiate the affections, he'll probably come around with "you don't love me anymore". He's manipulating you, and you are allowing it. You should be able to express your affection to one who loves you, without worrying about being annoying.
2007-10-09 11:13:09 · answer #8 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just spend some time together when the two of you want to but also give him his space when he needs it.
2007-10-09 11:12:11 · answer #9 · answered by James 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What an *** hole. If guys got upset about all the dumb stuff females say - they would be mad all the time and then the gal would be mad, and no one would get any sex. I think you should think about moving on.
2016-04-07 23:55:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋