I'm thirteen, i discovered masterbating last year. Kind of hard to explain; I was using this sit-up machine and then BAM!!! I guess I wasn't using it the right way...At that time, I didn't even know what semen was. Or what masterbating was. Then I wanted to do it again and again. I did. Then I found out how to ACTUALLY masterbate and I've been doing it practically every day ever since. Mostly 1-2 times a day. I can't avoid getting the urge; I'm around hot girls at school every day wearing tight pants...... and I fantasize about them sitting on top of my chest...... hahahahaha. I didn't want to get into this mess, it's sucking the life and energy out of me, and I don't want to be addicted to sex/masterbation. There are many other pleasures in life. I don't want to stop completely, because I know that it's natural and everything, but COME ON!!! 1-2 TIMES A DAY IS EXTREMELY EXCESSIVE!!!! I can't focus in school, and I need good grades. Give me the BEST advice, please!!!
2007-10-09 11:03:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
i am a guy and i would say stop trying to quit because its never going to happen!! I am in high school and all guys experience this same problem as you are.
2007-10-09 11:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what it's like, but I do know that you can stop this. It is acting just like an addiction, and you need to find something to keep you from doing this. Go get a girlfriend, play video games, go out with friends more, whatever you need to. These feelings are natural, to an extent, but are not healthy. I'll expand on the last sentence so you don't get confused. It is natural because you are both human. When a human sees or thinks about another human there is a chance that sexual thoughts may come into play. Sexual thoughts are natural, but them being about your sister are not healthy. Was about to hit submit when I thought of this next bit. Be happy I didn't hit submit. If your sister walks around in provocative clothing, or continuously goes around in a small amount, then you can ask her not to do that as much because it makes you uncomfortable. This could help you not think of her as much, because you are not seeing anything that could trigger a sexual thought.
2016-05-20 01:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a dude who wanks 4 - 7 times a day (lol, seriously) before school, and from 12pm to some stupid time like 5 or even 7am (school starts at 9:00 am) and he does just fine. I now masturbate once a day, i used to do it more but like you, i thought it was taking my life away. Anyway lol the point im trying to make is this, If your ok with the amount you maturbate then its fine, if your not, which clearly you arent then just dont do it! Keep yourself busy and i wouldnt say give yourself a timetable cuz that didnt work for me but just chill, and when ever you feel like it, have a bash but when you dont, dont! Also dude, I doubt masturbating 1 - 2 times a day will affect your school grades that much but as i said, if you want to change then know that you can change!
2007-10-09 11:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by Beans 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've found a new toy and will play with it for awhile until the novelty wears off. I am a little concerned that it is distracting you from your other important activities, so I would suggest doing it before or after you need to study or attend school. 1-2 times a day isn't excessive as your body will tell you when to quit. And to put your mind at ease, you are not going to hurt your health.
2007-10-09 11:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by Lou 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well allthough id rather not know about a thirteen year old masturbating, ill let you know its normal, all men masturbate once or twice a day, anyone who says otherwise is lying, and girls want you to fantasize about them, thats why they were the skin tight jeans, they are intended to turn you on. it makes girls feel special to know that a boy will go home and think of them. so chill out dude, you're only doing what every man in the world does
2007-10-13 11:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1-2 times a day is not excessive. Masturbation will not harm you in any way, so don't blame it for loss of energy. Try going to bed earlier, and don't feel guilty about doing it. The mess you are referring to is called puberty!
2007-10-09 11:34:55 · answer #6 · answered by Solo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just see gay people kissing on yahoo video and it will stop. But it is completely normal. Some boys masterbate 5 times a day and get wet dreams to. Its called hormones so be proud that your body is working properly.
2007-10-09 11:13:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're a teenage boy. Don't worry, 1-2 times a day is not excessive.
2007-10-09 11:07:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The loss of semen lowers testosterone levels and slows the metabolism. If you keep doing it you will lose any muscle definition you have right now.
2007-10-09 14:05:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1-2 times a day isn't excessive unless it is interfering with your obligations
2007-10-09 11:07:59 · answer #10 · answered by Naveed 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋