i met a guy at a frat party 5 years ago and we've been f-buddies ever since. i only see him late at night, 2-3 times a month, and i always leave early the next morning. rarely have i seen the light of day with him or been anywhere outside of his apt. which he always wants me to go to instead of mine for some reason. anyway, he had his first born (a son) 3 years ago and considering our casual relationship was able to keep it from me for almost a year. he obviously loves being a father and takes care of his kid through shared visitations but i've never seen signs of another female in his life, and definitely not a serious one. he says he and the mother are just friends and he wont leave me alone no matter how many times i've tried to end it (even going as long as 6 months apart). he's 33 with a good job, college degree, nice car and apt., takes care of his kid, good looks, and great in bed, but NO girlfriend. is he bi and cant choose, waiting for the right woman/man, or something else?
2007-10-09 10:50:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
He's still waiting for a decent woman to come into his life.
2007-10-09 10:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he's not bi (he's promiscuious) and you are but one of many in his candy store. If that is what you love out of life, get used to being alone a lot and treated like a toy, taken out every now and then and played with, then forgotten.
You need to work on your self-esteem, you are not a person to him, just a convient lay when he wants it. And everyone he is sleeping with, you are too. It's just a matter of time until someone brings an STD into the loop and shares it with you.
Time to wake up and smell the manure he is feeding you and get a life. Why should he pay (for life) in order to get something you are ready, willing and able to put out for free? He has you right where he wants you and you are begging for more.
2007-10-09 11:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by sapphire 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wonder how its possible for you to think you know so much about him when you, admittedly, only see him for a couple of hours in the middle of the night, two or three times a month, never in the light of day and probably boinking the whole time youre together.
Seems to me he just likes boinkin' you. Sounds like a hard worker and a good dad and likes a little nookie on occasion. Sounds normal to me.
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2007-10-09 10:58:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell if a guy is bisexual just by what you said..... He could be better at hiding his other 4 or 5 girlfriends better than you think.. Thats probably why he always wants to go to his apt.
You need more SUBSTANTIAL evidence than a clean home, good job, nice car etc. to know if he's gay, bi or straight.
2007-10-09 16:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thoroughly experience the comparable. i'm bi, however the belief of having 2 relationships on the comparable does not look precise to me the two. If I fall in love with a guy, I fall in love with a guy, if I fall in love with a woman, then I fall in love with a woman, yet i'm surprisingly specific I won't locate myself yearning a relationship with the different intercourse on the comparable time. i think of people who experience they go with the two that's because of the fact they see themselves as getting something distinctive from a relationship with a guy or a relationship woman and hence won't be able to get an entire passable kit in the event that they sort a relationship with in common terms one or the different. It does nonetheless annoy me each from time to time in that they do look encouraging the myth that we are all only grasping!!! yet you comprehend, if all human beings's satisfied and open approximately it, despite floats your boat!
2016-12-14 12:24:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that the guy just likes being single. He propably does not want a commitment. My uncle was like that he did not get married until he was 50. From what you said I don't see any hints at him being bisexual, he's just not ready to settle down.
2007-10-09 11:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by rilley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think he is bi. He either wants to have his cake and eat it or he really likes you and is not ready to commit fully. But I do not think this is a healthy relationship from your perspective.
2007-10-09 10:56:05 · answer #7 · answered by wee.rossco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO.. he likes the SINGLE LIFE... let it be.
my guess is you're into him more deeply than you want to lead on because you wouldnt be so worried about it.
2007-10-09 10:56:06 · answer #8 · answered by SkY_dRiFtEr_01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think he's got other f/buddehs like you who's knows what gender they are.
2007-10-09 10:55:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask him.
2007-10-09 11:37:49 · answer #10 · answered by Victor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋