I have been confused about my sexuality for a year and have been going from bi to gay back to straight. If you want more info look back at my recent questions concering this topic. I always thought I was sexually attracted to girls and I been having second thoughts alot. I cannot figure out if it is a sexual attraction. I don't want to be gay and if I was bi I would only date girls. Girls don't go for bi guys especially ones at my school.
2007-10-09 10:37:25 · 12 answers · asked by A Journey 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
in my experience girl go 4 u more if ur gay
2007-10-09 10:45:14 · answer #1 · answered by tasty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be so concerned about "what' you are? The label isn't as important as understanding what YOU are attracted to, what YOU want in a person you're dating, etc. Don't pigeonhole yourself and decide "I'm straight" or "I'm gay" just so that you can have a label. Your sexuality does not define you...just be who you are, date who you want, and to hell with anyone who has a problem with it. (I know, easier said than done...but I'm telling you, the label just ISN'T important. If it's important to someone else -- ie., a girl who won't date a bi guy -- they're probably not worth your time.)
2007-10-09 17:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by War Games AM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Daniel, this may help you cut through your confusion.
Try to think of your sexuality in a vacuum. If there were absolutely no outside influences, no societal influences....no parent pressues/influences, no family pressures/influences, no friends pressures/influences, no school pressures/influences, no outside pressure/influences at all.
If you could get rid of all that static and noise and get right down to a completely honest to the core answer to the question...who am I physically and romatically interested in...guys or girls? What would your answer be?
You might not be able to answer right yet. It might take some time to really be able to sort out the static and noise. But, if you can silence all that outside crap and honestly answer the question, you will have your true answer.
2007-10-09 21:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know which gender you're sexually attracted to, then you're just too young and still developing. Don't take any steps, just wait and live life normally until the day comes when you can look at a man and a woman and feel exactly which one you are sexually attracted to. Above all, don't try to grow up too quickly, your childhood is more precious than it seems.
2007-10-09 17:40:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you prefer to date girls that is your choice and there is nothing wrong with it. For now though i would suggest that you not tell them you are bi as girls the age you are dating are just sadly not mature enough to handle it. As you get older though i am sure you will meet someone who is mature enough. It should not affect them either as if you love them what does it matter if you like guys and girls, you are not going to cheat on her with a girl if you are straight i am sure so you wont cheat on her with a guy.
2007-10-10 10:35:34 · answer #5 · answered by rabbit1986 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Madison, why bother with a label? The best 'label' to follow is to be you. Be what makes you happy. If you find yourself attracted to females and males and it made you happy, then stay with it. If you were happier with one sex over the other, then stick with it!
I know it's confusing, but the short matter is, stick with what's in your heart and don't try so hard to keep to a label.
2007-10-09 21:08:51 · answer #6 · answered by ravenrogue84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether your gay or not its not something you can really control and not want to be what you are. There's really nothing against people being gay.... If you don't "want" to be gay stay away from guys and see how you feel in 6 months or so...
2007-10-10 00:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother with labels and classifications? Bi is good. Straight is good. Gay is good. Regardless of the form, love is good.
2007-10-09 17:40:56 · answer #8 · answered by madison_1953 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So when you figure yourself out- come back & ask us a Question. There are some things in life that Others can't do- for you...
2007-10-09 17:43:06 · answer #9 · answered by Joseph, II 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, whatever. Make up your mind. The girls are tired of waiting.
2007-10-09 17:40:42 · answer #10 · answered by zp055att 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋