make her go to the classes
2007-10-09 10:00:57 · 11 answers · asked by lanagogetter 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
fascist I mean
2007-10-09 10:10:14 · update #1
my daughter almost 8 years old
2007-10-09 10:11:25 · update #2
Well, my question for you is why are you making your daughter go to the dance classes if she doesn't want to? Why would you force your daughter to take ballet?
2007-10-09 13:25:06 · answer #1 · answered by Maniaxe 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
at the start, in the adventure that your daughter would not prefer to pass, why are you dropping some time and money? 2nd, if the instructor is only that, and not the owner, tell the owner. What you rather could do is smack the residing h-ell outta the instructor and mop the floor together with her. finally, if a instructor reported as me that, the toddler may be long previous in a flash. next, i might record a checklist w/the extra useful organization bureau and finally, i might leak a narrative to the newspaper some particular dance studio with that facilitates human beings to be reported as all way of issues. may be exciting would not it
2016-10-06 09:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the question? LOL.
Yeah, no matter what her opinion on your methods, it's not her place to call you that. It's a bad idea, too, to alienate children against their own parents. The three of you might want to talk it over, whether or not it's a good idea for your daughter to continue. 8 years old is not old enough to make decisions, but certrainly old enough to have her preferences and desires.
2007-10-09 10:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two issues, one is the issue of the dance teacher who lacks manners. If she is going to talk to you that way, I can imagine why your daughter does not want to go. I personally would not want to spend another penny or another minute supporting a persom who would talk to me like that.
Second issue is the issue about sending your daughter to the class even though she did not want to continue. The folks who told you to let her do what she wants are probably kids themselves.
I am not any kind of expert but I am a high school teacher ahd I see what kids are lacking by the time they get to my class. Most of them are lacking commitment and follow through. If she signed up for a class that is designed to lads for a certain number of weeks then she should go until the class is finished and if dance is not her thing or this is not her favorite teacher then she should be free to choose another activity or sport.
It is great to give kids a chance to explore different sports and activities until they fine one they can be passionate about. I would recommend you have her explore some of these sports and activities during the next year or two and tell her that she choose one that she wants to stick with by the 6th or 7th grade.
Then she will have the middle school years to get good at her activity of choice by high school. Once in high school if she has an activity, she can get involved with it in high school. This will help her make friends, keep out of some trouble, gain her opportunity to earn scholarships, while she learns about commitment and follow through and practice etc.
She needs to have some choice of activity that she likes but she needs to a.) follow through with her commitment b.) try it long enough to know if she really likes it or not and c.) choose something to be involved with before high school.
You are not a facist for wanting your child to participate in something healthy and productive. That teacher was wrong and deserves to know that and if she has a boss her boss deserves to know too.
2007-10-09 12:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your daughter is 8. You get to make all the decisions about her upbringing. Perhaps you need a new dance teacher; one that can make dancing fun for your daughter.
You should also do whatever you can to make the experience a fun one for her. No fun, she wont; but if it's fun, she will want to do it. Be creative. Also, for your daughter to think dancing is fun, it must be fun for YOU.
2007-10-09 10:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by livemoreamply 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how old is your daughter? If she's old enough to make her own decisions, then don't force her. But if she's only like 5 or something then she may thank you in the long run
2007-10-09 10:05:06 · answer #6 · answered by Mallory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1. dance teacher is out of line for saying that. you need to contact his/her superior.
#2. if your child is genuinely uninterested in this dance class, either find another one or find something else that she will enjoy. neither one of you should feel stressed or agitated about a supposed 'fun' activity....
2007-10-12 16:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by mirabilia490 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off the teacher is not a good teacher. If she is calling you that, you need to tell her boss or stand up to her. She needs to mind her buisiness anyways.
2007-10-09 10:04:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, bad use of term, she might as well call you a commie. But the question is, if she doesn't wanna do it, why make her>??? she's not gonna be happy about it, why don't you just ask her what she wants to do???
2007-10-09 10:04:53 · answer #9 · answered by krasnoglaz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
and?
maybe you are a little, why dont you let your daughter do what she wants?
2007-10-09 10:05:27 · answer #10 · answered by zombiexglamour 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋