marriage interview?

Question

how have you and your mate changed since marriage? explain.
what were some adjustment problems to your marriage?
what was the solution to this problem?
any words of advice for me?

Answer 1

i dont think we have changed very much we are now more comfortable in ourselves as partners and sometmies a little indifferent to each others wants and needs

adjusting to each other wasnt an issue you really have to adjust to your sig others friends and family which can be a problem

our problems arent your problems and couldnt be handled the same way

love your partner each and everyday as if it is your last cause you never know it just may be

Answer 2

Marriage, is a change in the relationship and whether you realize it or not your feelings, thoughts, perceptions and expectations change. I personally feel that this is even more true for women.
There is always an adjustment period where you are figuring out these expectations and changes. A period of learning and discovery both good and bad.
I can only say that communication is the key to all relationships. Talking, expressing your feelings, really listening to each other etc.., The sooner you learn to communicate with each other, the better off your marriage will be.
Be kind, considerate of each other. Remember to talk and not yell. Remember why you loved and married that person in the first place.
Also remember any relationship is hard work. It takes effort and thought to make a marriage work.

Answer 3

Everyone changes through time, but complacency tends to be a huge problem. Once kids come into the picture things really change and parents get caught up in the kids lives they forget to take time out for eachother. I began dating my husband when I was 15, so of course we have changed, as time grew I got caught up in being a mom and he got bored of the family type life style. What fixed it, he went out to explore the world around him only to learn in 6 months time he missed his family life. I learned I grew to expect him there and when he wasn't I missed the companionship. So when we reunitied we take time for ourselves on occasion, but yet remain involved with the kids. We communicate we call them our "kitchen talks" I sit on the counter usually we listen to the music and chit chat about life issues. Advice.....communicate, communicate, communicate and don't ever take for granted what you have, don't become complacent.

Answer 4

The first year is tough, you have to learn to live with each other!

Once you learn how to live together it gets better every year!