what it is, i have suffered with eating disorders for 4 yrs of my life, know i am getting over it with the help of my fiance.
we have been sleeping together know for 6 months and not used any contraception because we both want children. i started to notice i was getting mood swings and my breasts were tender and passing urine a lot more than before, but i didnt miss a period it was 2 weeks late but when i did have my period it lasted for about 10 days and was really heavy with blood clots. its been a week know since my period stopped but i stilll got tender breasts and got back pain, i dont want to go to the doctors because i feel like im over reacting. so can you please give me advice on what you think?? please
2007-10-09 08:39:16 · 9 answers · asked by chazio 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
That is exactly what happened to me. I am SO sorry.
This baby would have been a surprise, and the next month we practiced the "rhythm method." I didn't get my period, and we were pregnant. I was ecstatic, but my husband was stunned.
Do you know what they call people who practice the rhythm method? Parents.
You don't need to see the dr. about the miscarriage. You passed lots of clots and stuff, so you're ok. You still have pregnancy hormones running through your system, so you'll still be tender and moody. It will pass.
You love your fiance enough to make a baby with him, go ahead and marry him. It gives him a lot of legal rights when you're in the hospital. Boyfriends/fiances have no legal rights to make decisions as to the health of you and the baby.
Take care.
Debbie
2007-10-09 08:54:26 · answer #1 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry you are feeling so horrible. If it was a miscarriage, you should be fine now... Just like having a "heavy period". If you are that worried, go to the dr to make sure, but in my humble opinion, if you are no longer bleeding, you should be just fine. When you had eating disorders, did you miss periods? You should factor that in as well. Your body (as Im sure you know) gets all out of wack with no food/too much food. Also, some women will develop periods that include tender breasts and back pain that can last for a couple days after the end of the period.
2007-10-09 15:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by Nope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im currently 14 weeks pregnant and I can somewhat relate. I suffered from an ED for ten years (14-24) up until getting married 2 years ago. I was severely underweight when I got married and put on about 15 pounds over the course of my marriage. July was the first time "we" ever tried to conceive and it happen immediately. It doesn't really sound like you suffered a miscarriage simply because ED's can cause all sorts of irregularities with your cycle. My advice to you is to focus on getting healthy before TTC....not to mention that your not married yet. Who wants to walk down the isle of a "shotgun" wedding!
As my dear friend always said, "Why buy the cow when the milks for free."
2007-10-09 15:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jenni'lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you have the slightest doubt that you were pregnant, Go to the doctor any way. It is highly possible that you can miscarry and not know you are pregnant especially if you were only 2 weeks late.
If you have miscarried there are procedures that you must go through with your doctor. I think it is called a DNC. That is where they go in and sweep out your uterus. If you don't have this done, you could have major side-effects.
Also, if you have miscarried, there is a certain period of time you have to wait to try again.
Please go see a doctor!!!
2007-10-09 15:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by dejah.krehmeier 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you had an early miscarriage. It happens a LOT more than women realize, but you have all the signs.
DO NOT DOUCHE.
Go to the doctor if you want, but there is nothing he can do.
Your body will recover in time.
The real issue is, you are not married, you have a psychological issue (eating disorder)....you should NOT be having sex!
Sex is for married couples prepared to bring a child into the world. Especialy sine you have an eating disorder, you should not be toying with premarital sex, which is not only destructive to your fragile psyche- it is VERY dangerous for any child who might be conceived.....as you have just learned.
Get healthy....THEN get married.....THEN think about children. Until then NO SEX.
2007-10-09 15:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by Mommy_to_seven 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Listen-if you feel that bad, then please go to the doctor. And if the doctor thinks you are over reacting, then find a doctor that won't. Remember, you need to take care of yourself. When your body is ready-you will get pregnant. However, have yourself checked out. That way you will be sure everything is okay when you really do get pregnant.
2007-10-09 15:53:42 · answer #6 · answered by Dene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have had a miscarriage. Go to your doctor and get checked out.
2007-10-09 20:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go get checked just incase.
2007-10-09 15:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See your dr. just in case.
2007-10-09 15:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by OOO! I know! I know! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋