2007-10-09 07:55:11 · 11 answers · asked by Marizta P 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you are not ready to get pregnant, tell him no. You do not want a baby before you are ready for it because it could ruin your life and your relationship. If you are already pregnant and you aren't ready, please consider adoption.
2007-10-09 08:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by Agia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im confused. Since when did "having a baby" become something so casual between a bf and a gf. Instead of having sex you should spend some time reading the Bible.
Sex is reserved for married couples and babies for families. If your not familiar with scripture then surely you've got to remember the elementary cheer...
First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes the baby in the baby carriage.
2007-10-09 08:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by Jenni'lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should NOT have a baby just because a man wants you to. Its your body and in the end you will be the one who has to deal with it if it turns out you are not ready for it. He can leave anytime but you are bound to the baby. So don't make an innocent child suffer because of your boyfriend's selfish wants. You should finish school first before you decide to jump into motherhood
2007-10-09 08:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are not financially stable then dont do it you have to have a joob to be able to spport your child thats like 200 dollars a month of formula plus a big pack of diapers a week that costs about $15 and wipes and you will need to spend at least 100 dollars on a crib clothing for that kid may seem like it shouldnt be that much cuz their clothes arent too expensive but like every other month they need a new size! and you will have to pay for daycare if you have a job! and dont count on your bf cuz what happens if he leaves you??? then what will you do if you have no job because he was supporting you 2? and if you live with your parents they might kick you out now you have to think about utility bills and rent so dont do it unles you yourself want one and believe you are stable enough to have one or it will be extremely hard!
2007-10-09 08:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Religion, and other silly societal beliefs, aside, it certainly sounds as if you are much too young to have a child. Specifically, the very fact that you are considering having one just because you're bf asked you to proves that you are in no way ready to have one. Some day you will be. Tell him that if he wants one he can wait and prove his loyalty to you by sticking around until you are both financially and emotionally ready.
2007-10-09 09:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by anon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, im 19 years previous so I even have been on your place till now, reason i became into 13 at one time so i can relate.. if he thinks approximately his ex lady chum you dont would desire to be with him, needless to say he nevertheless likes yet another woman, so which you're able to do greater perfect, detect a guy who will chase you, make him call you, by no potential call him, and if he's involved he will call and make the attempt to attempt and get you to love him, yet dont provide in to easily, make him artwork on the grounds which you deserve the final and if he doesnt attempt to be with then you he's not well worth a while. so definite you will desire to destroy up with him and detect a greater perfect guy, you're so youthful and have self belief me there are dissimilar adult males available...
2016-10-08 21:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by ghil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a no brainer. You are too young to have a baby. Finish high school, go to college, get married and then have a baby. Don't have one now for your mom to raise.
2007-10-09 08:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by kat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't have one.
2007-10-09 07:59:49 · answer #8 · answered by TD R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please learn how to type a question before you even think of having a child.
2007-10-09 14:31:37 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur not ready dont have one....cause u will regret it. :P
2007-10-09 08:05:19 · answer #10 · answered by *me* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋