It's not nice- I mean fair enough, going out and kissing different people, but why go out and sleep with people you have never met before? It's horrible. Sex is always better in a relationship anyway, theres all the emotional stuff involved.
Why do girls become sluts???I just don't get it!
2007-10-09 05:22:54 · 32 answers · asked by . 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Why do some guys sleep around?
2007-10-09 05:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by gopher646 6 · 14⤊ 0⤋
Not all women mix sex and emotions. Sex is a basic need and can be pure pleasure even if no relationship is wanted. Sadly there are still double standards for men and women about this. Besides I can't see why it is any business of yours what two consenting adults get up to.
My best sex ever was NOT in a relationship. So I guess I used to be a slapper and I don't see any shame in it. And it never stopped me from having a loving, fulfilling relationship when the right bloke turned up. And I would never ever cheat on my bloke, so I can't see the harm, really.
Saying that, I don't think it would suit everyone. If it's not for you, don't do it. but why not let someone else enjoy themselves.
2007-10-09 05:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by Cold Bird 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A sl*t as you call it will always get more attention from boys and girls. At the end of the day she may steel your boyfriend and is home with him showing him what he's been missing out on while your with your girlfriends still talking bad about her and know idea whats going on...
I agree its not right, but it happens every day. I think if more women acted like sl*ts but didn't sleep around , they would keep there guys satisfied enough.
Sl*ts put on a performance in public and in bed, most women arent confident enough to do that.
Remeber dont hate your enemys, learn from them. Its the only way to beat them.
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2007-10-09 05:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
omg! I know!! I was just ready to complain about this, but then I thought to myself that I DO THIS TOO. I would judge a girl who sleeps around, but I wouldn't judge a guy who does the same thing. My opinion about the girl would be worse that my opinion about the guy. (And I'm a girl myself) I'm pretty sure that if you think about it you'll feel the same. Just think what your opinion about a girl in your school who sleeps around would be, and what your opinion about a guy in your school who sleeps around would be. Which one is better?
2016-05-19 23:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by eva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur only 16 and from one of your past questions i see you ahve already slept with someone so whos a **** now? i may have slept with a few guys but i didnt do that til i was in my mid 20's and those reasons are for me and only me to know. im now with someone and its serious and yes the sex is better but you should watch your mouth calling girls sluts when you slept with a guy as soon as you turned 16 (if not before!)
2007-10-10 05:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
In these times, for the very same reason men do it. Just because they want to. Do you have a derogatory term for a man who sleeps around??
By the way, I'm a man. Old now to play around but had my day and it always seemed hypocrital the double moral standard.
2007-10-09 06:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's because they think guys are going to like them because of it and also because a lot of guys (especially older ones) put pressure on girls to do it. They threaten to leave the girl if she does not give in. I fell into this trap when I was young. I had the hots for a guy and thought if I slept with him he would fall in love with me. Boy, was I wrong. There's a lesson to be learnt in that. You just stick to your moral beliefs. Young girls don't seem to think there's anything wrong with sleeping around any more, yet when one is older (and hopefully wiser) you regret it and think less of yourself. Also, if you start having sex too young, it loses its appeal when you're older (mid-life) when it is actually important to keep your husband/partner interested.
2007-10-09 06:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by CelesteMoone 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every time you meet a new man and sleep with him you could be accused of sleeping around. Everyone does things different and nobody is perfect.
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2007-10-09 05:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by Afi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i total agree with you but its is not all girls it boys as well i think maybe cause they have been in bad relationships as no body knows what gos on behind close doors they may do it cause if that. But if a girl dose it they get called all sorts of names but if a boy dose it they cheer him on now i think that is wrong i think boys are as bad as girls
2007-10-09 08:32:32 · answer #9 · answered by amanda p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um, they want to? It's their choice isn't it? And as long as the guy (or girl, ha :]), doesn't want a relationship, it's fine. Oh, and guys do it just as much as girls! I think you shouldn't have sex until you know someone properly, but only if you want a relationship with them, consenting one night stands are fine.
2007-10-09 05:32:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because they are of a lower intellect. Well done for not falling into that - your path is the one that will lead to happiness and don't let any of these morons tell you otherwise. Sleeping around only leads to broken hearts and herpes - neither of which are particularly pleasant. Not that I have ever had herpes - or even sex at all - you know what I mean.
Good luck.
2007-10-09 05:29:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋