Are Scorpios really as bad as it"s claimed?

Question

After reading all the bad press it"s enough to put anyone off, even for friendship, let alone a relationship.

To my knowledge i don"t know any scorpio people personally. I don"t understand how they are supposed to be a good match with cancer and pisces though, when these are gentle signs, and scorpio seems aggressive. I would have thought they would have been better matched with a sign like aries which have a firey nature, and would be able to handle the scorpio better i would have thought.

How would a cancerian or a pisces be able to handle living in fear of offending, and the repercussions from a scorpio?

Yes Rico Taco, one worried crab here. In future i will be checking out birthdates of any people i meet and if they fall between Oct 32rd- Nov 21st i will be scuttling off as fast as my shell will carry me.

Just to be on the safe side a couple of days either side those dates also.

Answer 1

Oh, the Scorpio reputation. We ourselves do laugh at it. Its as if the world is waiting for us to self destruct or go on a shooting spree through a day care or something.

Heres the funny thing about Cancer and Scorpio. Most of what Cancers do behavior wise doesn't offend Scorpions. A Crab's need for a comfortable home and caring family appeals to the Scorpion, who enjoys assuming the role of a protector. The Crab's outward moodiness just reminds the Scorpio of what they feel like on the inside, but are too afraid to show. Same thing with Pisces. Both signs are gentle, and thus need a compliment which can be found in Scorpio.

The scary Scorpios are broken Scorpios, who are in deep pain because they are literally missing their balancing gentle half. They hurt others and themselves and usually don't even know it. In order for a Scorpio not to be destructive, a Scorpio should not be operating for their own purpose. Scorpios find their true happiness in self sacrifice, which may be found by caring for a Cancer or Pisces. We all secretly wish to be tamed and for our heart to belong completely to someone else.

Answer 2

I have a good knowledge of scorpios...given that I am one. No we are not as bad as it's claimed. Believe it or not, those are only some of the characteristics. I'm generally a go with the flow kind of person, even though I do have my mood swings. If you do something to offend me, then yeah, I'm less likely to want to be around you. But other than that, I'm pretty easy to please.

I have never dated a Pisces or a cancer. In fact, to me they are kind of boring. I do like to live life on the edge a little. I like change a lot. My boyfriend is a Leo. Another Fiery sign. We're kind of perfect for each other I guess. So I don't get how cancers or pisces are compatible with scorpios, either.

Answer 3

Me personally, I CAN be bad. Just don't mess with me, you're safe. Most folks can tell (they say by my eyes) not to mess with me. And yes, I'm also aggressive. But the reason the scorpio sign would work best with the Cancer, Pisces, Capricorn and Virgos is because most of these signs are chill and don't instigate and don't "HAVE" to win. As with an Aries, a Leo and another scorpio (all the on'es I didn't mention, don't matter). it would be a war of the wills and would be constant battling on who is right, who's in control and who's going to get their way.
Personally, I'm attracted to Aries, but I get along better with people that are not push and try not to change me. As long as you can accept me for me, I'll accept you for you and we can have a great time! Cause really, even if I'm supposed to be mean and bad, I'm really not. I like to party, I like to have fun, I like positive people in my world...BUT if you mess with me or my family or anyone I love...you WILL lose a limb. Hope this helps!
And honestly, give it a chance, you might find these extremeties are fun! Don't discriminate.

Answer 4

there is just a specail connection that is undescribable with a scorpio and other water signs. scorpio likes the gentelness and needs that in their life cause of the way they are themselves. im a pisces and i can put up with whateva a scorpio throws at me....expect cheating and abuse. i will fight to the end for what i want and usually end up getting it even with the scorpio......there are some bad ones but not all are alike. they go through a phase which can take months or years for them to evolve into the wonderful person. i've met both of those scorpio's. i dont live in fear of offending. i keep it in till i cant take it no more then let it all out. we either argue about it or forget it...pick one.....then the next day or a couple days later everything is like it was before (we act like nothing happened)....drama is the word with all water signs. we all like drama and feed off it.

Answer 5

I'm a Scorpio and I read different sites on the net and a lot of them say that scorpios are known for being vengeful when crossed. And can be jealous at times. While this may be true sometimes, every zodiac sign has a reputation.

Answer 6

scorpio is an aggressive sign, but unlike the fire signs, it's extremely sensitive and emotional on the inside, just like cancer and pisces. They're very compatible because, pisces and cancer's are some of the few signs that would be able to understand the emotional nature of scorpios and help them to open up. U see they're the most sensitive yet powerful sign of the zodiac, but they need to have their defenses up, so they won't be crushed emotionally. Pisces and cancers can put up with scorpios long enough to handle them. As they are passive gentle signs.

Answer 7

I never have consider Scorpios bad or evil. The sign is a water sign as is Pisces and Cancer. They are very stand offish people and self confident.

I have had several friends who were Scorpios and I am Pisces Sun with Scorpio moon, I think the Scorpio in me is in control now in the latter years of my life as I am very domineering and demanding. In my early years it was the old soul, Pisces who controlled my personality.
Cancers and Pisces are Water signs as is Scorpios , the first two are gentle souls if they also have their moon in the same sign as their sun sign otherwise if their moon sign is in a different sign as mine the other sign's traits will show up.

Answer 8

Aw.. I'm not sure if they are really as bad as what people claim here on this site.

Honestly, I've never met one single Scorpio male/female who has a nice heart. They are all vengeful, hateful, sensitive, unforgiving, insecure and jealous.
I get along with all of them well. I'm a sag and we are having good times together. That's all it matters. I've never dated one and don't think I'd. I have tons of Scorpio Friends but yeah.. just ordinary friends. I have one Scorpio girlfriend, I regard her as my best friend however, she really disappointed me. I don't Even know who she really is.

All the Scorpio I know are very deep-thinkers an manipulative. they will think deeply to get what they want. they are cautious and they are great at planning things to sabotage someone they hate. They investigate for a certain time, do research, think what should/ should not do, just mainly plan stuff to eventually get what they want and they don't care about others. that's kinda too creepy for me.

Basically, They are smart and cool peeps. Nothing will change my mind for having Scorpios as my friends. Just that, I'll try not to make them angry. they can be nice to you only if you're nice to them.

Answer 9

What bad press? What's being claimed about Scorpios?
Provide a link and let me see what's up!

No, Scorpios are not better or worse than anyone else. They are just people, like you and I are just people. And people are people regardless of their astrological birth order. We all live, breathe, eat, feel, see , hear, touch, just like everyone else.
Most of the time Horoscopes don't get it right. For example, today is a five -star day for my husband, according to his horoscope, where love will be first in line and he will earn riches and blah blah blah. And yet, he's home with a flu. Where's the prediction for that?
I say let people be who they are without the added burden of preconceived opinions based on theory.

Answer 10

Scorpios is the only powerful star among all, i am not favoring but rather i have read it many renowned astrological books and event told by famous astrologers. In simple terms:-
1) They are very intelligent and they never show it and we never know it and so often they are not impressed by any brilliant person coz they already ruled those things but just they hide it.
2) They r coolest but when aroused to anger then will rule you i.e Do or Die attitude, remember only when provoked intensely.
3) They have a magnetic personality and powerful sexuality and seductive & penetrative eyes
4) They are just very Honest, Sincere, attentive, careful, Trustworthy and ready to die attitude for the people they love, but if betrayed they will either get destroyed or destroy you completely coz for them only one side of the coin will win.
5) Very dignified, self disciplined, highly talented and knowledgefull but they never show it unless time and situation demands.

So He/She is great lover and excellent friend but the most worst enemy....only thing that you have to do is

Give your trust to scorpions, they will give life for you!