2007-10-09 04:50:40 · 21 answers · asked by New York Chic 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yesd becuz sometimes people see it as a weakness & take advantage of your sweetness.
But you stay sweet, sweetstuff! =)
2007-10-09 04:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by ☆ Heavenly ☆ 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
This is a little bit difficult to answer because you did not define the word "sweet". If you are talking about your significant other and either he or she being kind, loving, warm, caring,thoughtful etc you will be disappointed if you expect that kind of treatment MOST of the time, let alone all the time. We have an emotional cycle which reacts to our needs and wants and desires , and this can happen at any given time so that it it difficult to maintain an even course most of the time.
Besides, NOTHING lasts for ever. To expect someone to react with being all of the things I mentioned above, on the theory that they are what you consider to be sweet, is just not realistic. What happens if your bf/gf is "sweet" most of the time and you get use to it and by getting use to it have taken away the element of surprise. Are you going to be devastated when the day or days come when you are aware of not being treated with "Sweetness" and don't realize that there are days when you partner may not be feeling well or worse, has developed the longest recorded "headache" in medical history? Nothing lasts forever., and very little which gives us joy lasts most of the time.
2007-10-09 05:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by Alfie333 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it's nice to be sweet but at the same time if a person is sweet all the time then people might start questioning how genuine and sincere they are as a person or if it's just an act to cover up the fact that they are an evil and hateful person deep inside.
2007-10-09 04:54:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes..
for example take a person who is "sweet" to everybody they run into in life..
are you trying to tell me that they are such a saint that they can get along with EVERYBODY..??
i don't think so...you have to question that..are they genuine..is it a fake part of their personality..?
just like if i don't like everybody..I don't expect everybody to like me..
& then the other situation comes in where people expect you to be little nice person all the time & they don't expect you any other way..
sometimes being too nice can be an advantage to other people but not good for you
2007-10-09 08:27:27 · answer #4 · answered by ×Charmz× 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is actual quite effortless, something I conflict with too. quit the habit-- do not tell the categorical truth to those who ask, yet quit premier human beings on to believe that you're someone you're not from now on. Your thoughts about hurting others are known in worry-free words to some extent. human beings do not inevitably like being informed the truth, besides the undeniable fact that the element which will damage others the most is mendacity to them about your self. each from time to time, this is sturdy to easily be your self. commence a mag. yet once you confer with human beings, do not tell white lies. this is the worst element you are able to do, and it in worry-free words places rigidity on your self to uphold that conception that you're 'sweet.' finally it will commence to ruin your existence. Telling the truth isn't being egocentric or bitchy. this is observed as the truth for a reason, and if human beings ask a question they understand might want to damage them, they ought to settle for the answer. Kindness is totally a sturdy element, yet once you're excessively effective, it will in worry-free words damage your self. for instance, if someone who feels like they're in a rush is operating in the direction of a taxi to get in yet you're the nearest, only get in. do not only enable the different individual walk throughout you. you seem to be someone who's afraid to enable human beings understand the genuine you. for sure, walking round with a foul ideas-set is, properly, undesirable, yet only be reasonably respectable to human beings. sufficient that they are going to say you're type, yet something else must be your distinctiveness. perchance your penchant for humor, thoughtfulness, and so on. And if that would not help, properly, see a psychiatrist or communicate it out which include your mothers and fathers/acquaintances. sturdy success.
2016-10-20 06:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For guys, "sweet" is a word that pretty much guarantees that you aren't getting laid. In general, it's difficult to both be nice and be good, because true goodness often requires a person to be harsh. This is especially true when you're raising children.
2007-10-09 05:25:16 · answer #6 · answered by Mythological Beast 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Think about it - M&Ms are best at the movies with a bucket of popcorn. Salty and sweet. We need that balance, that contrast. Otherwise, the sweet loses its value.
(Now I'm hungry).
2007-10-09 04:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by Coach E! 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, no. There has to be a little bit of bad girl mixed with the sweet though. =)
2007-10-09 06:46:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actually yes...people tend to take advantage of those sweet, agreeable, easy going friends.
2007-10-09 04:59:37 · answer #9 · answered by ~ Floridian`` 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
I have a problem with being way to kind my family always says. Often to my detriment.
2007-10-09 04:55:12 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Etheria ♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋