When there is something that is bothering you day to day, like your kid's father (Your ex husband) What might happen with what he might (try) to do in court. Even when you know that (he) is the one that is guilty and owes court ordered child support.
how do you get over this stuff when it's a day to day thing that bothers you wondering whats going ot happen and even when you try to STOP wondering and stressing it still pops up in the back of your head and makes you sick
how do you deal with this
2007-10-09 04:45:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Every morning as we get up, we only have two options to choose from. First, choose to be positive or second, choose to be negative.
We are what we think. If you think you or you cannot, you're right. The choice is yours...
With a bad attitude you can never have a positive day. With a positive attitude you can never have a bad day. I know it's always easier than done but constant practice makes perfect.
Always display a positive outlook in life no matter how stressful or bad things are. Read inspirational quotes and reading materials that can help you back on your feet.
And the most powerful of all, Prayer... always remember that God loves us and will never ever forsake us.
2007-10-09 06:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by sasha 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I know all about this....I have learned not to think about it... Thinking about it only creates more stress and 90% of the time its things that you can't change or make go away....So why even bother?? I have changed my ways into focusing on important things that are going on and positive things that I control...Have faith and trust me things will start coming through....Pray for strength to get you thorugh each day and guidance for direction....Ask for patience for the times you may just want to lose your mind....It's normal and you will be okay....Best wishes....
2007-10-09 12:01:51 · answer #2 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"Don't worry about anything, but in everything, through prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God which surpasses every thought, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Finally brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable - if there is any moral excellence and if there is any praise - think on these things."
Philippians 4:6-8
I have had situations where I pray this as a prayer to God.
Lord, I am anxious, nervous, worried about _____________
I bring it to you with prayer and petition thanking You in advance for how You will work in this situation. Help me to trust You even if I don't understand. Help me to think on what is true, honorable, just, pure, lovely and commendable.
Help me know the steps to take.
In the Mighty Name of Jesus - Amen
2007-10-09 12:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by giraffegal 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can train youself to think what you want to think. Start by realizing you can't change anything that has already happened, but you can change the way you think of it.
As a human, you have no right to feel bad anything. You make that choice. You can also choose to feel good. It is totally your call.
2007-10-09 12:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look at it like this you know you will win in court right and noting to worry ,so go and stop thinking so much
2007-10-09 11:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by Diana$@$ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well without knowing more details about your name or anything which may give me an idea about you, i can only say that you need to look at life from a very level and thats when your problems will look very small and you will start to ignore them. make those problems very unimportant for your survival and you will not have them soon.
tom
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2007-10-09 12:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by bh37bh37 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st of all your name tells you where your power is!!! It is in GOD, ask him for help. 2nd, get really busy!! Work alot, volentere in needed. A busy mind isn't bored!! when those thoughts enter, purposely close them,replace themwith others, and time will help!! quit stressing!! good luck
2007-10-09 11:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by happywjc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean,,just try keeping as busy as you can,,and e-v-e-r-y-t-i-m-e those thoughts pop in your head,,say a quick prayer,,to God and ask him to be your rock and shoulder to lean on,,ask that he take on your burdens and leave them to him,,
along with that you could also,,try educating yourself on family law,,in order to further assure yourself every thing will be alright,,
2007-10-09 12:05:32 · answer #8 · answered by lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋