I Had a miscarriage on The 4th Oct 2007 and i am Just wondering when is a good time to start trying again?

Question

And how long does the bleeding go for after it? and i can not stop crying ever night when i am going to bed?

Answer 1

I had a miscarriage in late Feb and my doctor told me to wait at least 3 to 6 months because if i got pregnant again so soon i might have miscarriage again he said the body might get use to the fact you miscarried and do it again so i recommend you wait and talk to you doctor see what you options are good look and keep your hopes up. ttc mom and mom of 2.

Answer 2

I am so sorry for your lose. I have had 2 miscarriages, the second one was last Nov. Having a miscarriage and getting through it is a very difficult thing to do. It is perfectly normal to cry alot. I still have my times where I just cry and cry. You need to give yourself time to grieve. You will get through this is your own way, in your own time. It may not help for you but after I had my second miscarriage, a friend of mine bought me a little glass rocking horse figurine and told me that anytime I look at it I should not only remember the baby I lost but to also know that one day I will have another. I bought a little stuffed animal and that also helps me when I just break down in tears. Maybe something like that will help you.

As far as the bleeding goes, everyone is different. I bled on and off for 10 days. Most doctors tell you to wait until after your first normal period before you start trying again. Others tell you to wait until your second or third. If you weren't very far along, your doctor may say you can start trying as soon as you are ready.

You will get through this. I know that you may be feeling like you can't or you don't know how but you will find your own way to find the strength. One day when the time is right you will have a precious little baby. If you ever need to talk to someone, you can email me at [e-mail].

Answer 3

I'm so sorry for your loss. We have suffered through 4 miscarriages and I have yet to understand all of the things that go along with them. I can tell you I have been up to 14 weeks preg. and the bleeding has never lasted for more than two weeks in my circumstance. After I had a DNC with the last mis. it stopped immediately. But my Dr. said no sex for 2 weeks. My doctor said you can wait or try immediately just be prepared for the mental aspects of it all. As for the crying it will get better with time. At night was the worst time for me as well. I think its just because you are relaxed and have time to wonder. Try talking to your partner and look for the positive side of things. I still sometimes find myself morning and I think I always will but just not in the same self destructive way I did. We now have a beautiful seven month old adopted little boy and my life could not be any fuller. Good luck and God Bless!

Answer 4

First off, I am deeply sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is to heal your heart. I had a miscarriage due to a cyst rupturing @ 6 weeks in March. Every person is different when it comes to bleeding. I bled for about 5 days after. My doctor "advised" me to wait at least 4 weeks before having sex again. Talk to your doctor, it's the best thing you can do. I read somewhere that if you get pregnant in the 6-8 month period after a miscarriage, you will be considered a high risk pregnancy. Do not stress yourself out, it's the worst thing you can do to yourself. Take care of yourself, and I am sending "baby dust" your way.
Kirstin

Answer 5

My bleeding stoped about a week after my D&C. I had my miscarriage in July and still I cry every night. It's the hardest thing that I went through. But be strong it just wasn't your time and soon you will become a mommy. One thing I did for the longest time was blame myself cause I was suppose to watch my little one. But there was nothing I could do it wasn't my fault and it's not your fault either. Just be strong and it'll get better with time. I waited until I had one good AF and then I tried again. just make sure you are ready to try again.

Answer 6

Sorry for your lost. I had a miscarriage in August, it was a very early pregnancy (I bled for 7 days, 4 days was very heavy and 3 days was only spotting) this happened in August 11 and then September 8 I had my period.
Like you I cried a lot but I said when the bleeding stop I will stop crying too and get ready to get pregnant again as soon as possible. I couldn't believe it happened to me, you never think these things will happen to you but this is life and that's how life it's. Cry all you need to cry now but please be positive and believe that you will get pregnant again very soon, I didn't get pregnant yet, in two days it will be 2 months since my miscarriage, but I know soon I will be pregnant again. Be positive and a lot of baby dust to you!!!!
One advice: do you know if your luteal phase is ok? check that just in case. Baby dust to you!!!
My doctor told me I can try again after I have one normal period, my 1st period after the miscarriage was normal so I started again.

Answer 7

Talk to your doctor. Some want you to wait a few months, others say it's okay to try right away. The bleeding depends on how far along you were. If you were really early you will bleed for maybe a week. if you were farther along it could be for a couple of weeks. I'm so sorry.

Answer 8

I bled for almost 3 weeks straight after my miscarriage, I didn't have a DNC. It took me 3 months for my hormones to go back to normal, so it's different for everyone. Just make sure you go to your doctor for blood work to make sure your hormones go back to normal. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you get blessed with a baby soon. I know how hard it is to go through a miscarriage.

Answer 9

sorry for ur loss i can understand how u feel i went through the same,i know u just want to be pregnant again to overcome the loss but let me tell u that u have to wait for atleast 2-3 months before trying again as this much time is needed for ur body to make up for all the loss inside u,and please don't torture ur self like this nothing will *** out of it,i went into depression just thinking about why did it happen,does it had to be me,but what was the use i got into depression,but now i have got hold of myself and excepted what has happened,it was destined to happen nothing can be done in front of god's wish,so have faithin god and wait for 3 months for ur self to heal and iam sure u will be able to concieve again,god bless and good luck

Answer 10

sorry for your loss. If your still bleeding heavily and are in any kind of pain I suggest that you call your doctor or the early pregnancy unit at your local hospital.
There are online support groups for parents who have suffered babyloss (google it) and you may find some comfort there.
No one can tell you when you ttc again but most doctors do suggest that you wait 3 months but its important that your also emotionally ready before facing another pregnancy.

Take care