I've got a friend (man) and really like him. He does too but we havnt dated even though once when we met we became quiet close without discussing our feelings. There is a connection at least I think so. Due to work/school commitments and geographical distance, dating would be very difficult. I also get the impression that this guy is shy of getting into something and therefore could distance himself from involvement. This doesnt change my feelings for him. I cant bring myself to make any moves to progress the friendship we have which currently amounts to the odd chat and nothing more. Am I right to leave things be and just see if it is meant to happen, he will do something?
2007-10-09 04:27:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think you would be out of line to drop him an e-mail briefly explaining your feelings and asking for his take on the situation. Discussing such things face to face can be difficult (especially if the person is reserved, or "shy"), but perhaps e-mail can provide a nice medium through which to express your thoughts. I've had some of my best "feeling-sorting" conversations through e-mail.
2007-10-09 04:50:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally there are two types of people ie ,dominating or submissive.If both are dominating type any one can make the next move.In other cases the dominating person can make the move.If both are submissive,man may take the move.But in case both are submissive,man may take the move.You must admit that long distance relations are difficult to maintain.Relationship is kindled by closeness.One of you can try to relocate,if possible.
It seems in this case you are the dominating person and if so you have to make a move.
2007-10-10 01:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make the first move. He sounds like me and I've missed the bus a few times, so to speak. He's possibly shy and doesn't want to seem pushy so if you don't go for it you'll probably never find out what he is really like. Good luck.
2007-10-09 11:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should run the risk of embarassing yourself - after all ive always found if a mans interested, no matter how shy, he will put himself out big time. If he dosnt you will always be wondering if hes half hearted about you, and if he ever really fancied you?
2007-10-09 13:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Glitterbomb ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
men are not mind readers.
we act on information, not on hunches, esp if were a little reserved and we dont want to be rejected...
men dont choose, it the women who actually do the choosing... and from my experience (im 50) they ALWAYS get what they want...
so tell him...
2007-10-09 11:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋